I need some advice or at least some different perspectives on a situation that has me feeling conflicted. I’m a woman in my early 40s and have been dating a man of a similar age for about six months. We’re both professionals and neither of us has been married, and our romance took off fast and furious. Now the newness has worn off and we have hit a lull. I don’t see our relationship working out long-term.
But I was a little put off by how much planning he’d done without me. He basically makes plans and then informs me and sends me a receipt to Venmo him. I guess I appreciate the lack of stress on me, but I did want to take a teamwork approach to this trip and that just hasn’t happened. While he is fun and we have shared many good moments and have great chemistry, I have gone from being so excited to wanting to get the trip over with. Do I go through with the trip or pull the plug now and accept the losses? I care about him and don’t want to add financial waste to the inevitable breakup stress. Yet, I’m not sure how enjoyable this trip will be knowing I’ll likely break up with him when we are back home.Stick it out.
Yes, the trip planning has been rocky. Perhaps had you dated longer and known each other better, he wouldn’t have made so many missteps in inadvertently excluding you from decision-making. But none of this came from a place of bad intent. He was excited and enthusiastic and gung-ho about creating a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
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