Miss Manners: Relative’s gifts always come with insults attached

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I have a family member with whom I have a challenging relationship. I go out of my way to be civil and polite, but also to keep my distance.

One of her standard jabs is to bring me a gift with an insult attached. Due to a health issue, I was unable to work out for several months, and she loudly and publicly presented me with an oversized muumuu because I was “really packing on the pounds.” Likewise, my love of reading inspired her to present me with a collection of board books for toddlers.

GENTLE READER: No doubt this family member is just waiting for your insulted reaction. Deny her the pleasure.

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