I was with my partner for three years, made a cross-country move for him, was VERY close to his family , and we often discussed marriage and children. We began to renovate our house with plans for, “Where will the future kids sleep?”And “Dad” said either get an abortion or I’m out. We are both in our mid-30s, have excellent careers, etc. There was no world where I could get an abortion. I’ve always wanted to be a mom.
Our beautiful daughter is turning 1 next week. Dad hasn’t visited in 11 months, refuses to look at photos of her and often calls to berate me because I filed for child support. It sucks, but I’m moving forward.However, Dad’s life seems … unchanged except for the child support he’s paying. He still has all his close friends, he flies to visit them often, and they visit him. All his college friends are getting together next weekend at his family vacation home.
I know I can’t change anyone else but me. How do I let go of this anger that his friends and family don’t seem to care about his horrible life choices? How do I stop feeling how unfair it is? How?You get off Instagram, yep. Then you wait a little longer than you’ve waited so far for that move to have its intended effect.
Would you rather your ex had married you before skipping out for sake bombs and yelling at you about money?Who knows what he and his family actually feel about each other, since you’re just seeing photos. But they’ve made their choices, too.The wanted child, the move near family, the propping open of doors for his family to know your child — all great. The Instagram fast, smart. Keep it going: Learn to quit the idea completely of him as an involved dad.
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