Afghan peace talks: The woman who negotiated with the Taliban
Fawzia Koofi's life changed under the Taliban and they tried to kill her - but she talked to them.A month of killing in Afghanistan When it was their turn to speak, a Taliban negotiator responded to her demands for sexual equality. "They said a woman can become prime minister but not president. They also said women can't be judges." The format of the talks did not permit a two-way discussion."I didn't agree with that but I didn't argue," Ms Koofi says. Media playback is unsupported on your device Media caption Is peace with the Taliban possible? The official Taliban line these days is that women can work and be educated - but only"within the boundaries of Islamic law and Afghan culture". For people like Ms Koofi this is the crux of the problem. Islam has one holy book, but many streams of theological thought. "I have heard differing views about Islamic teaching from different scholars. The Taliban follow extreme interpretations of the Koran." 'I never purchased a burka' Fawzia Koofi first saw a Taliban fighter in September 1996. Image copyright AFP Image caption Taliban fighters took Kabul in 1996 and were in control of most of the country by 2001 "I was studying medicine in Kabul when the Taliban took over the city. I saw them from my fifth floor flat. There was fighting in the street below with militants holding automatic rifles." Within days her childhood ambition had been destroyed and she was shown the door by the medical college, which was following orders from the militants. She stayed in Kabul and taught English to girls who had been thrown out of school. "It was a very depressing period. If someone wants to undermine you and stop opportunities for you… it was very painful." 'We embraced... but I'd still kill him' The Taliban issued a decree ordering women to wear the full-body burka in public. "I never purchased a burka because I won't spend money on something which I don't consider to be part of our culture," she said. Defiance came at a personal cost. She had to restrict her movements to stay safe. Image caption Burkas are no longer mandatory - but many women still wear them in Afghanistan "The [Taliban's so-called] vice and virtue department used to patrol the streets and they used to beat up women if they didn't wear a burka." Not surprisingly, most people felt a sense of relief when the Taliban were ousted after the US-led invasion following the 9/11 attacks in the US. "We could walk in the streets and do our shopping without fear of being beaten up by the Taliban." 'My convoy came under fire' After the Taliban fell, Ms Koofi worked for the United Nations, rehabilitating former child soldiers. She was also left with two daughters to bring up on her own after her husband died of tuberculosis, contracted during his time in prison. Image copyright AFP/Getty images Image caption Ms Koofi says her daughters (pictured here in 2012) and other girls cannot be confined to home But despite this, when parliamentary elections were announced in 2005, she decided to enter the fray. Her father had been an MP and she admits his support base helped her win votes. "But the important challenge for me was to create a separate identity." She went on to become deputy speaker of parliament in the first of her two terms as an MP. It was during this time she escaped a Taliban attempt to kill her in the south of the country. "In March 2010 I went to Nangarhar to celebrate International Woman's Day. On my way back my convoy came under fire." Bullets were fired from across the river and from a mountain top. Ms Koofi and her two daughters were saved by her security officers, who drove them into a mountain tunnel, from where they were airlifted to Kabul by helicopter. 'Everyone wants to have peace' Ten years on and the Taliban and the US are inching towards a peace accord, which could be signed this weekend. It took only a few years for the militants to regroup and fight back - they now control more territory than at any time since 2001. The human toll from the fighting has been immense - tens of thousands of civilians have been killed and injured and Afghanistan remains one of the poorest countries in the world. Some 2.5 million Afghans are registered as refugees abroad and another two million are displaced within their country. An estimated two million widows are struggling to make a living. Image copyright Image caption Coalition forces support Afghan troops - but how long will they stay? "Everyone wants to have peace. We were born during war and grew up in war. Neither my generation nor my children know what peace means," says Ms Koofi. But not a deal at any cost. "Peace means the ability to live with dignity, justice and freedom. There is no alternative to democracy." Whether the Taliban agree remains to be seen - how much they have changed is unclear. Their spokesman, Suhail Shaheen, told the BBC"people who are against peace are using woman's rights to derail the talks". But Fawzia Koofi says:"Women have lost so much. How much more can we lose?" Both her daughters are enrolled in Kabul universities and have grown used to life with access to media and the internet. "No force can confine my daughters and other girls of their age to their homes. Anyone who wants to rule the country has to take that into account." You may also be interested in: Media playback is unsupported on your device Media caption The BBC was given exclusive access to spend a week with ambulance workers in Afghanistan Related Topics Read more: BBC News (UK)
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