Dear Thelma: Feeling hurt, angry and betrayed by my friends

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'Dear Thelma, 'It's been months and I still cannot get over what they've done to me, excluding me from the group like that. Maybe this is the end of the road for our friendships.' - Sad and angry

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But when one of them got to the venue first, it was closed! She was fuming mad with me, although I told her that when I googled the place, it was said to be open. Was it my fault that the place was closed? It's been months and I still cannot get over what they've done to me, excluding me from the group like that. Maybe this is the end of the road for our friendships.I'm sorry you're having a bad time. Transitioning from school friends to adult friends can be tough. I'm seeing several threads here, and can see several possibilities.

Then there's the travel to and from the place in the monsoon season where you might get stuck in jams or floods, too. Perhaps they didn't want to meet up?My dear, you should know better. Planning a group outing includes making a reservation, especially for a birthday. If you don't, you end up at a bad table or waiting in a line or, as you discovered, finding the place closed.

If your letter had stopped there, I'd suggest you have an open talk where you apologised for not booking the place and to figure out if maybe you pushed them into meeting when they really didn't want to. Then there's the matter of going on holiday together and you feeling they have deliberately cut you out.

 

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