Sizwe Dhlomo gets TL up in arms after he says, 'Normalise not eating at funerals'

  • 📰 TimesLIVE
  • ⏱ Reading Time:
  • 32 sec. here
  • 2 min. at publisher
  • 📊 Quality Score:
  • News: 16%
  • Publisher: 59%

South Africa Headlines News

Basically, stop expecting people in mourning to feed you ...

In response to a tweet about why funerals can be problematic, Sizwe came up with his own rules to celebrate the dead.

“Normalise not eating at funerals. Also normalise having short funerals so people don’t even get hungry,” wrote Sizwe. Many users were confused at his comments, saying that Sizwe is disrespecting African customs. Here are some comments from the displeased tweeps: If you don't eat at Limpopo funerals it's considered an offence. And it doesn't end there, there is punishment, if there comes a funeral at your home, the entire village won't eat resulting at a loss.Cows won't eat themselves thought. Inkunzi ikhatshwa ngenkunzi then a sheep tomorrow for cleansing. Our funerals are ritualistic.

 

Thank you for your comment. Your comment will be published after being reviewed.
Please try again later.

I did that years ago

Absolutely. When I was growing up, you would only feed people that came from out of town. Now it's the whole area. The bus even drops the mourners at the house 🙈🙈

I agree as well

Totally agree. All these traditions need an overhaul, just as many other traditions have had to do.

Agree.

It’s the truth.

We first need to normalise funerals that don't take longer than 2 hours. You can't expect people to 4 hours at a funeral and not give them refreshments.

I rather stay at home, you guys can live stream the funeral 😊

His right families must try to minimize expenditure as much as possible

Black people spend too much money on funerals it’s really a waste , losing a loved one doesn’t mean you must also lose money

That’s true. People spend a lot of money

I support this 100%. A family faced with a bereavement has a lot on their plate. Feeding mourners shouldn't feature in that plate. Mourners should have their meals at their homes before leaving for the funeral, and do the same when they come back. This will save unnecessary debt.

Jeez I been saying... like when the people come during that week they must be the ones coming kadi kuku (cakes) and teabags and vegetable packs bathong

Uyahlanya Sizwe...sfuna kudla yehhe👀

That's why we have our funerals during the week and back to work after the funeral

Feeding people is not nonsense if you can.

I’m with Sizwe.

Hawu!

What ever happens after this pandemic, we must keep the rule of 50 people at the funeral

Funerals are ritualistic. You don't just bury the person but uyamkhapha to the next life with a cow. Who's gonna eat all that cow meat?

You guys do not have content. Lazy journalism. I mean he is right, but still.

LadyKaryBOo Totally agree, those people are in need and we need to help them, so if they have to spend all the thousands to feed us what will be left for them? I second it, NO FEEDING AT FUNERALS!

100% agree with him 👌🏾

I lost my grandpa 2 weeks ago he died on a Saturday we had the funeral the next Thursday. I can't explain how much money was spent before the funeral due visitors n family doing nothing but eat n drink to make it worse we must serve n attend them like we r not hurting grieving

Agreed!!! Mina if my mom dies before me, they will get NOTHING! THEY ARE NOT EVEN GOING TO BE ALLOWED TO COME AND SLEEP OVER FOR THE WEEK! SEE YOU ON THE DAY. From the graveyard EVERYONE must go eat at their house's!!!!

Sizwe is right.

🙁

We have summarized this news so that you can read it quickly. If you are interested in the news, you can read the full text here. Read more:

 /  🏆 28. in ZA

South Africa Latest News, South Africa Headlines

Similar News:You can also read news stories similar to this one that we have collected from other news sources.

Sizwe Dhlomo gets TL up in arms after he says, 'Normalise not eating at funerals'Basically, stop expecting people in mourning to feed you ... 💯 ! Instead cook and bring a meal for the bereaved. Take some work off their shoulders and afford them time to grieve. Iqiniso leli elikhulunywa u Sizwe. Here in CT Townships people attend funeral with their own Spoons and camp chairs. Funeral is a 'Food place' for them. Most People attend funerals for the freebie plate🤣 I agree
Source: TimesLIVE - 🏆 28. / 59 Read more »

Sizwe Dhlomo gets TL up in arms after he says, 'Normalise not eating at funerals'Basically, stop expecting people in mourning to feed you ... 💯 ! Instead cook and bring a meal for the bereaved. Take some work off their shoulders and afford them time to grieve. Iqiniso leli elikhulunywa u Sizwe. Here in CT Townships people attend funeral with their own Spoons and camp chairs. Funeral is a 'Food place' for them. Most People attend funerals for the freebie plate🤣 I agree
Source: TimesLIVE - 🏆 28. / 59 Read more »

Limpopo station commander killedLimpopo police have launched a manhunt after the Groblersdal station commander was gunned down commander yhoo Thuggery is on the rise. Please rt to spread the good news who knows ? You might be helping a young lady on your timeline thats in need of these
Source: eNCA - 🏆 49. / 51 Read more »

Lily James says it's 'not the time' to comment on Dominic West kissing scandal | ChannelLily James has declined to comment on her relationship with The Affair actor Dominic West, after photos of the co-stars kissing surfaced last week.
Source: Channel24 - 🏆 48. / 51 Read more »

Extension of Covid-19 relief grant will cost the government R6bnFinance minister Tito Mboweni says the money will be found by reprioritising spending and not by increasing overall state expenditure Question. Where will the money come from. Are we going to borrow from overseas again *cost tax payers... The government generates no money. Just say TAXPAYERS. 🙈🙊🐵🙉🐒 FokofANC myanc VoetsekANC VoetsekCele VoetsekMkize RemoveANCfromPower VoetsekCyril VoetsekKopdoek VoetsekFuckyMbalula VoetsekACE VoetsekTito VoetsekANCvoter
Source: BDliveSA - 🏆 12. / 63 Read more »

Extension of Covid-19 relief grant will cost the government R6bnFinance minister Tito Mboweni says the money will be found by reprioritising spending and not by increasing overall state expenditure reprioritisingspending TitoMboweni 💸 What does it mean? The same as building an economic recovery plan on tourism to a country where it's not safe to walk around or travel by public transport?
Source: BDliveSA - 🏆 12. / 63 Read more »