When I was 24 years old I had an abortion. I was in love with my best friend, he was in love with drugs. I convinced him that I could handle our friends-with-benefits situation, because I knew he didn’t want anything more than that. It’s not what I wanted, but I was very good at loving the exact wrong man at that time in my life.
I got pregnant . He didn’t want a baby, but thanks to his strict Catholic upbringing he didn’t want me to have an abortion, either. I was in no position to care for a child, and in my heart of hearts I knew being tethered to this man for the rest of my life was abad idea. Turns out I didn’t need to explain this to him, because he stopped answering my calls. I saved the $200 I needed for the procedure and my sister took me to the clinic. I didn’t hear from him for years. We never spoke about it.
He didn’t have to find a clinic and have a consultation. He didn’t have to sit alone when the clinic worker told him the pregnancy test was indeed positive. He didn’t have to travel back to the clinic with his sister and take the valium they offered before the procedure.
Which one is it? Is it totally our responsibility and meant to be handled alone, by us, or do we all of a sudden have no right to make choices about what happens in our bodies? When we are talking about a pregnancy resulting from a heterosexual sexual experience, a woman cannot become pregnant unless a man ejaculates inside her. He has to be anparticipant in order for any of this to go down. Yet women have always been the bearers of the contraceptive burden — in most part thanks to the pill.largely because in clinical trials, they couldn’t handle the same side effects we experience every day.
Kkkk you so genius
Men are just as regulated, they pay child support. Also you’re an idiot for having sex with a man who runs out on you, not only doesn’t love you but who isn’t your husband, come on. We have so many examples of why to stop having sex before marriage.
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I know several different men that have all kinds of kids by all kinds of women and the moms only get less then $40 a week and yet they keep on getting girls pregnant 🙄 stupid ..
I agree, promiscuity is a degenerate practice that has extremely bad consequences for both men and women. Specially talking about the male promiscuity issue, Elliot Hulse has talked about this before.
Because we’re the incubators
Ooh! I think I know this one! Because it is easier to determine the identity of the mother at birth? (For the purpose of assigning blame, that is)
Not true. A woman somewhere on earth gives birth every 10 seconds. We must find this woman and stop her today. Overpopulation will make the deadly Chinese virus spread much faster.
I'm confused at the conversation. What exactly are we talking about here?
Who is talking about regulating women?
Analogy Him: Here, let me shoot you with a gun. I will give you a bullet proof vest to protect you. Her: Why don’t you just take the bullets out of the gun? Him: Nah, it feels better to shoot a gun with real bullets. Her: But does that matter when I’m the one getting shot at?
Yup, mandatory vasectomy that can be reversed is what we should do
Because the woman's body carries the unborn.
Good point!
There was a gel created in India which could be inserted into the vas deferens and actually block sperm from being ejaculated and could easily be flushed out if you wanted to cause pregnancy and they ended or delayed the development because of minor side effects. Like cramping.
What about my body my choice?
Brilliant writing. Well done
Because the control access to the baby factory
Ni kuonewa tu
Because if a key opens multiple locks it’s a master key and valuable. If a lock can be opened by any key it’s useless
Men can’t have babies
Multiple births can be created from a single pregnancy.
They are held responsible financially
That is exactly the point.
To be fair they did make a birth control for men but then there was all this ironic whining about weight gain, loss of libido, and every other side effect women have been forced to live with so they scrapped it. Because they shouldn’t have to deal with all that, just women should
They only try to control our bodies because they fail to realize it’s our minds they should fear.
Control you own body
Time to just masturbate
YES. I would even settle for NOT controlling ANY bodies...
Then the man would be responsible for child support for 100 children lol
ThatKaylaPerson Once I start sleeping with 100 women per year we'll talk
DevenRue It's mostly because it's more difficult to eliminate the millions of cells in male ejaculate vs the 1 female egg. It's actually easier to use a condom. It's not 100%, but it's pretty damn close.
What the hell did I just read! confused
If he gets more than one pregnant, he will be bankrupted by the child support. That's regulating enough.
Right?!
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