Being diagnosed with ADHD at 47 means that I have a lot of catching up to do. Recently, I tried on my ill-fitting big-girl pants, as I set out to buy my first house that didn’t come with miniature horses and big-boobed Barbies.Living with undiagnosed ADHD
trained me to feel inept. In grown-up situations, I never expected to be taken seriously. I was always afraid that everyone was sniggering at me behind my back. The fear was all in my head. The lawyer and realtor expressed admiration over the questions I asked. Finally, here were people who didn’t find my excessive querying annoying. Although I found my dream home, I took my realtor’s advice and looked at several other properties to be sure. No small feat for someone with impulsivity.Surprised at fitting so well into my big-girl pants, I tried to undo my realtor’s compliment by saying, “That’s because they have more money to spend than I do.
I won’t do that again. It feels great to have a trait that used to elicit exasperation taken in a positive light. It’s still hard to feel like a full-fledged grown-up because I’m doing many things for the first time late in life. But I feel good that
I can definitely relate to voices in my head telling me “ppl are laughing at you” “just be quiet & look pretty” I get a lot of compliments for having a MSEd but I still don’t feel any different I still feel inadequate 😔
Powerful article. Thank you for sharing, 🙏
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