The Social Worker Missing Her Active Sex Life

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SexDiaries: 10:00 a.m. I get a text from F., the one person I have decided to see since both of us have avoided people for months. It is always a little awkward between us. I’m not sure if we have a lot in common, but the sexual connection is really great

Photo-Illustration: James Gallagher This week, a woman Zoom-chatting her husband, texting her ex, and getting a long-overdue afternoon hookup: 41, married, Harlem.5:30 a.m. My cats begin their morning routine of waking me up and demanding food with increasingly obnoxious tactics. I finally get up to feed them. I go back to bed and try to go to sleep. It has been a rough several months — insomnia is a nightly struggle. I figure I can at least get myself off to help me go back to sleep.

9:00 p.m. Sundays are generally a quiet day for me. Before I get to bed, I text with an ex, and the conversation gets a little steamy. The rules for my poly marriage are that I let my husband know if I plan to see a partner but mostly only if I am going over to their place. He doesn’t want to meet anyone I see or date, but I have met most of the women he sees. We opened our relationship a couple of years into dating and have continued throughout our marriage.

10:00 p.m. I try to go to bed early, when my best friend texts. We text back and forth, and before I realize it, it’s already 1:30 a.m. Oh well, I guess I can try to go to bed early another night.8:00 a.m. This morning it is hard to get out of bed. I know I am going to be on call all night for my volunteer job — I’m on call at an emergency room, working with survivors of sexual assault or intimate-partner violence — so it is really hard to want to get up.

10:00 a.m. I’m not sure I feel any different, but I head out for my run and complete my daily workout. 9:00 p.m. I finish my evening watching Watchmen, which I’ve been told to watch by E., my friend and former partner, who I haven’t seen since the end of February. He was the first person I ever told I loved. The word is so loaded to me, and I know he has the same experience with it too. It took me a long time to say it, and it was at the end of our sexual relationship as he was getting more serious with another partner who wanted monogamy.

 

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