Dear Abby: Husband whose sex drive has disappeared tells his wife to find a side piece

Dear Abby, written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, answers a question about a husband who tells his wife to find a side piece.DEAR ABBY: I have been married for the last 25 years to a wonderful man, “Frank.” We are very happy in all areas except for intimacy. Frank has lost all interest in intimacy and sex. It began about two years ago, and I have tried everything to reignite the flame in our relationship.

About a year ago, he told me I should find someone -- a friend with benefits -- to take care of my sexual needs. At the time I said no, hoping he would be interested again. Now, after a year of waiting, I am seriously considering finding a “friend.” Have you any advice about how to restart the intimacy in our relationship? -- EXTINGUISHED IN VIRGINIA

DEAR EXTINGUISHED: You and your husband need to have another serious talk about this. He should also talk to his doctor and ask for a referral to a urologist and an endocrinologist, who may be able to help. The inability to achieve an erection occurs in some men around age 50 and even younger, which is why Viagra is such a popular drug. If your husband is willing to discuss this with a medical professional, it may be the solution to his problem.

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