Dear Abby: Expectant mother says her mother-in-law is unkind and her husband is unsupportive

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are expecting our first child this year. I moved to the United States a few years ago to be with him. His family is mostly absent from our lives. I have tried to make an effort with my in-laws, but it’s always met with failure. They make excuses, so we have come to accept that we see them only during holidays. It has put a strain on our marriage.

Now that I’m pregnant, and this is her first grandchild, I thought my MIL might like to spend more time together. Unfortunately, the joke is on me because she’s now criticizing me for taking time off work because morning sickness was tough on me. She has made hurtful comments to my husband that have now caused him to treat me with little respect or compassion. I am depressed and wonder if I made a mistake by marrying him and getting pregnant.

DEAR EXPECTING: Sit your husband down and tell him you need him to stand beside you -- and stand up for you -- in the months ahead. When you do, you will see exactly the kind of person you married. You can’t control your in-laws, so accept that they will likely not be a large part of your lives. Make friends with other new and expectant mothers who may be a source of emotional and practical support in the adventure upon which you are embarking.

Source: Law Daily Report (lawdailyreport.net)

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