This is how you can reclaim your dating life and feel more empowered than ever

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Having multiple choices is quite unheard of amongst women, because we are taught that men are the ones who are ‘naturally’ the choosers and we just have to wait to be picked. But the egg doesn’t chase the sperm and even if you don’t have ovaries, you still should never feel inclined to chase anybody who benefits from your existence in their life, unless you really want to.

As someone who has recently begun practising what it truly means to keep my options open, I have never felt more powerful, level-headed and relaxed. One single man no longer looks like a golden opportunity to me. There’s just more of them: more men with which to learn about myself; more men to spoil me; more men to experience new and exciting things with.

Dating from a place of co-dependency, like a lot of us do, is immediately feeling as though the guy you went on a few dates with is suddenly the one – just because he ticks a few of your boxes, texts you back sometimes and happens to be cute. But no, he’s not being mysterious for intermittently disappearing on you.

Keeping men at arm’s length until they make a clear and visible effort to stand out to you reaps wonderful results, even if you find that, from doing so, you don’t even like them half as much as you thought you did. That right there is an efficient way of exercising your feminine power. As women, we don’t weed out and vet men enough – because we fear ‘losing’ them. But men are not suddenly going to become extinct.

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