She began to look for ways to heal herself, and traced the problem back to the photograph that had revealed to her what happened to her father. She had to confront it and make it less toxic, she reasoned, and she began by finding out more about her father's killer.
"It started as a revenge in some ways, because I thought to myself, 'Every time I think of this man it's like he controls me, I get these panic attacks. It's like I'm not in control of my own emotions.' I was like: 'No, he already killed my father and now he's killing me too.' So for me, forgiveness wasn't so much something I could just think about doing, it was something that was crucial for me.
The family began talking to the prison guards, the prison counsellor and a priest, but at a certain point Candice turned round - "and I just saw him, I just saw him sitting there, like he had appeared from thin air.""He looked like he'd been frozen in time. From the pictures I'd seen as a child to who was sitting there was the exact replica of the same person, it was unreal," Candice says.
Eugene told them that he and his team had sent an infiltrator into her father's camp to identify the most radical and skilled activists - the most "dangerous people" within the Pan Africanist Congress - says Candice. Her father and three other men were chosen."What he didn't know was that Eugene De Kock and his team had set up an ambush," says Candice.
"We were both two people that were broken, sitting in front of each other, and so it was a very transformative moment," she says.
jackieredpath What a wonderful woman.
Very brave. Most people hate and it destroys their life.
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Stupid cow.
asiijaan Forgiveness not easy to attain for sure.
That’s your fault
TBF she’s just spent some of the inheritance on that hair style.
This is a weakness of unimaginable proportion. It goes against all the laws of being human.
What about the white’s being murdered by blacks in SA today? Oh yes, we can’t talk about this can we, because it doesn’t fit the agenda of the BBC - The Black Broadcasting Corporation...
“Hey! Didn’t you kill my brother?” - Alexi Sayle
Nah, I’d batter the twat with a chair leg, but hey ho 😁
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Cool?
Yeah no sorry
Weird flex but ok
Disrespectful.
Strong stuff, maybe Julius_S_Malema will take time and read this book, maybe he will see the effects of his rhetoric on murdering whites.
Good for her I’d do much the same
why? WTF...
WEIRDO
Boris was shaking hands with covid patients.
If I wrote what I would do I will get a ban from twitter. But it certainly wouldn’t be a hug
Ye naaaa
Why Your dad is dead and the criminal who killed him is alive and you show compassion.. That prick is laughing at you... Ask your self would your dad hug him if he killed you I don't think so...
I'm sorry but no, I am not impressed by this.
I’m sorry, but no. It’s an eye for an eye for me. Sorry, not sorry 🤷🏼♂️
Wow. What a woman.
Yup gud for her lyk but am old school old testament red Bible style ah wid na I'd want his bludd
The strength she shows in her forgiveness is astounding. Fair play to her, i know I could never do it. If anyone ever killed my dad I would hate them forever
Just weird
Never would I
Good for her to be able to do that. I probably couldn't.
I would too 🙌🏻
Hello no 😮
Incredible forgiveness.
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