I finally have a nice, stable boyfriend, so why am I so unhappy? | Dear Mariella

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Past relationships are still affecting you, says Mariella Frostrup, and you need professional support, as well as friends, to come to terms with your trauma, and counter negative thinking

The dilemma I’m 27 and have been in a relationship for 18 months. My boyfriend and I met four months after I left my abusive ex-partner, who I’d met after the death of my father. My boyfriend is kind, funny, has a zest for life, loves to include me and never shies away from talking about the future. He moved in six months ago. We went through a rough patch – I made life particularly difficult by avoiding spending time at home and picking fights. We are finally stable.

 

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Anyone thinking lesbian?

Because your “boyfriend” is a girlfriend.

Because Brexit has been delayed.

Get a rampant rabbit if he doesn’t make you smile

She might even own a vw, perhaps that's why she's unhappy!

Because you are in imminent danger of becoming unstable too?

Cause you've been hoeing around and given up your self respect. Plus lost the ability to pair bond. Should have closed the drive through window and kept your hands off the whopper.

It's not rocket science, nice and stable are not sexually attractive.

All about the badboys...

Women are NEVER happy

Because of climate change

Small willy?

Go to sleep

Probably because only you can make you happy

girlfriend always unhappy

I pity him

Because he's nice, stable and boring. Sorry to break it to you but your DNA sees those qualities as weak, and it prefers a brash, selfish scumbag.

Because he bores you to tears!!

I do think finding a purpose that nurtures you heart and mind and maintaining a struggle towards that will bring a zest in your life. It should dramatically improve the health of your relationship too

It’s not the having, it’s the getting 😊

He's a western male liberal?

Is it because you are pathetic?

Nice, stable doesn't mean handsome, rich, potent😀

Get out of the stable and into a bedroom?

Because that’s a horse, luv.

Because the feminist movement in collusion with the media has spent the last two decades conning women into thinking they can have it all as you are all worth it and you have all fallen for it!!

He doesn’t like all your cats?

...because you aren’t a nice, stable person yourself.

Because you're a woman?

Please desist with tripe like this. You can do better.

slag

Because, in your imagination, you were going to end up with a different boyfriend, who looked different and had a different job, different friends, and a different personality, and you're annoyed that reality doesn't match your dreams.

Because his boring.

Your unhappy because his Snoring keeps you up and really you would be happier on your own

Low level of sugar

Sleepless in Seattle all over again

Because a nice and stable boyfriend does not guarantee you happiness.

because of Corbyn

The reason being you never know what you have until you don't...

You sound high maintenance and takelife way to seriously reading that

Why? Cos you’re a woman.

The elephant in the room is obviously Brexit. That Frostcups chose not to mention it is tantamount to a hate crime.

Please ignore the idiotic comments here. You have classic ptss symptoms. You will not be able to function in any relationship, however loving, until this is treated. There are people out there who can help. You are worth it! ❤

Otracaro tú

Sounds like my girlfriend wrote this. My ‘stable relationship, why am I unhappy?’ Article in the appearing next week will come to the conclusion that it’s because my girlfriend doesn’t look like the girl in this stock photo.

Because God is not in the picture guiding you and teaching you wisdom from his word! Triangle: man & woman with God at the top point. The closer man and woman strive to be close to God(& Christ), the closer they come to each other as they have up the sides.

I guess it's because you are looking at 'The Observer' at RHS corner iso of your boyfriend....

Because I’m really a gay? Or, I want to be a boy today? Or, I wish I could get some attention for my mental state? All this sexual freedom makes me feel like I’m living in a changing world - safer. But, the reality is my identity is being wiped.

He’s probly broke af. Tragic story. Can’t afford to do anything but I can fix her car. What I can afford. While almost getting jacked at gunpoint. No cigarette pack weighs that much. I don’t smoke in. Public. Thought this was my alley. Hot.

Just goes to show womenbare never happy

Maybe you want a girlfriend

Because you have a boyfriend.

Because you’re not stable yourself probably.

Blood line curse just carried over from one relationship to another Word of advice keep you're legs closed until you solved this

This is life - find something good, Fuck it up and repeat ☝️😂

What great advice 👌

Aah, The Guardian, imitating The Daily Mail and driving away loyal readers.

Because he's a horse

Because he is Mr nice guy ?

وَقَالَ رَبُّكُمُ ادْعُونِي أَسْتَجِبْ لَكُمْ And your Lord says: 'Call on Me; I will answer your (Prayer).

Probably because he understood the arguments and voted for Independence in the EU referendum and you voted to remain because you didn’t understand the arguments because you’re thick as mince.

It’s your spirit husband disturbing you. You don’t know, you don’t know what is going on.

Unhappy=boyfriend Happy= Boyfriend Or girlfriend Or married Very nice🤔😕 balance= Relationship?

because women impose on the man the burden to solve the human condition for you. Also, you'd find something to whine no matter who you found.

Because you need to meditate. S**t I forgot to meditate last night.

You'd be happier if you bought some blackout blinds..... Way too bright for a bedroom

Without having read this, I'm going to say it's because you're depending on your boyfriend to find happiness.

Boy am I eager to comment on this vague title from an article I haven't read. Don't hold me back!

probably because your stock art photograph also appeared in the article entitled: my bisexual girlfriend does not like the new guy I'm seeing. so in stock art counseling, you've got a lot of stuff to work out

Because third wave feminism has filled your head with nonsense and created a hole in you that can never be filled. I’ve never met a happy feminist, sour to the bone, the whole lot of them.

Miserable cow

You're unhappy because of hypergamy. Women are never satisfied with what they have.

You're a feminist? Idunno.

be your self

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