Dear Coleen: My hubby cheated for 18 months while we tried for a baby

Dear Coleen My husband and I have one-year-old twins through IVF, which is a dream come true for us. Sadly, though, I’m seriously thinking of ending my marriage after finding out that my husband had a sexual affair with a woman he met online.My husband eventually confessed after I found a text from him to her and claimed the affair happened because of the stress of infertility and our terrible sex life .

Coleen says Well, I’m pretty sure you were stressed too, but didn’t resort to having an affair. Moving on, the positive bit of this is he wants to have relationship counselling, which shows a ­grown-up attitude. I’m not condoning his affair by the way – he should have told you how he felt at the time before jumping into bed with someone else – but I understand how you got to this place and how you lost the connection with each other.Right now things are still raw, so my best bit of advice is to give yourself some time to think things through to avoid making a rash decision based on pride and anger.

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