Dear Thelma: I failed my final-year project twice and feel like a disgrace

I began my bachelor degree course in IT back in 2015. It was all rainbows and sunshine until 2018 when I should have graduated. In the final year, we had to work on a final-year project.

My mother does not know about my education loan, and she has been supporting me and paying the ongoing fees.At the same time, I hate myself for needing my mother to support me financially as she is also taking care of the household expenses and other bills. I realised that I have had symptoms of depression and anxiety for the past year. I do notice significant changes in me and they are affecting my routine in a very alarming way. I’m concerned that I may be clinically depressed.I am aware of the consequences of severe depression or poor stress management.

The trouble is that anxiety and depression make you question this truth. So I’ll ask you a question: would you love your baby brother less if he got a D for maths or if he had to repeat a year of school?And if you thought your little brother was about to kill himself because of a school semester gone wrong, what would you say to him?

For your specific situation, I suggest you see a psychologist straight away. They will work with you using talk therapy. I can’t tell if you are talking to one teacher repeatedly or different people each semester. However, when a university has a student repeating a term for the third time, they should be asking why and putting a team on it.

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