If you’ve tuned into any romantic reality TV shows over the past few years, chances are you’ll be familiar with a concept known as “the test”.“the test” involves seeing how a prospective partner behaves around other people to gauge their trustworthiness and how much they really like you via the age-old belief that actions on a night out with the boys speak louder than sweet nothing words whispered when no one else is around.
“People make out like the things that happen on these shows are irrelevant, but they’re not. Yes, it’s a high pressure environment so you see the worst of human behaviour more quickly, but it’s still human behaviour and that’s extremely relevant,” Voysey says. Voysey says it’s also something she sees in the older dating demographic, where people “have lost their ability to feel risk and vulnerability because they just can’t cope with the prospect of another heartbreak.”
“It kind of reflects your overarching ethics,” Voysey says. “Are you OK with playing around with people’s lives to quell your own insecurities? Because even if they pass the test, when they find out you schemed and manipulated they’ll no longer trust you, so it will backfire anyway.”
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