“Should I accept or reject BTO?” — SG man asks because his fiancé cheated on him with his friend after BTO got approved

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“I don't understand why she would tell me this after we got our BTO approved... Should I accept or reject BTO?” he asked for opinions

“Should I accept or reject BTO?” — SG man asks because his fiancé cheated on him with his friend after BTO got approved

“She confessed that she wanted to come clean and start afresh and expect me to forgive her,” he wrote. Turning down the BTO would mean a 5 to 6-year setback, and he was unsure if he could keep the place or how long it would take to get another one.“I have already put in quite a sum in the deposit and it’s quite an amount for a fresh grad who just started work. Should I accept or reject BTO?“Money can be earned back. Trust, not so much, almost impossible. Time, no.”

They urged him not to prolong his suffering, emphasizing that he’s still young and can start anew by ending the relationship and forfeiting the BTO flat. He then advised the man not to go down the same path and suggested cutting ties with the woman while it was still early. He added, “Like many mentioned, money can earn back. Trust, not so much, almost impossible. Time, no.”

 

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