After divorced woman moves in with man who's a single father, he treats her like his maid, controls what she wears and spends on - The Independent Singapore News

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'... he reminded me of my abusive ex husband who is a control freak with some kind of OCD. I am honestly confused and caught in between now.' — Divorced woman

A woman who moved in with a single father and his 8-year-old daughter felt that over time he became very calculative, to the point where he would sometimes treat her like a servant.

“My brother will always side his boys and even mentioned that we’re the ‘guests’ not host. I can only ask my daughter to endure [their treatment]”, she wrote.“But at the same time, I didn’t want to be a leech to him. I offered to contribute to the expenses but he quickly decline citing he earns almost 4 times of me. He said he rather I take care of his house and daughter and make up for the lost of her motherly love.

Jas added that Jo also started being very calculative about the extra expenses that incurred since she and her daughter moved in. “He cited a $40 increased in the utilities bills etc. He even mentioned about not getting the Nintendo Switch he promised the girls. I had a discussion with him to find out if he’s struggling financially or that he has plan to cut cost.

“He seems to set very high expectations and is kind of micromanaging. Like if I didn’t arrange the dishes in a certain way, he gets unhappy. And if I didn’t arrange the clothes in the way he likes , he’ll mess up that particular drawer so that I have to pack all over again. I realized if the toilet isn’t dry, or the toilet bowl doesn’t have the solution installed, he is unhappy. I also realized that he is actually unhappy when I didn’t do housework even if I am sick.

 

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So..dont trust that guy. He's sick minded...move away.....

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