Thank you very much for your letter. Mr. Baer has mentioned the natural physiological and biological reasons that may affect one’s sexual responses. He also moved on to the possible contribution your relationship and psychology may have to your dryness.
I hope I can widen the perspective a bit more by talking about other changes that have happened or, perhaps even more importantlyIf I understood you correctly, dearest Susan, the problem on your part is not so much the dryness, but more the pain when penetration is attempted, which is why sexual intercourse has ceased between you.
There are so many things one could say about this, but for today’s column, let me limit myself to two:Sex does not need to end in intercourse. In fact, intercourse does not need to be part of your sexual repertoire at all! The best kind of sex there can be is one with no definitive goal/end in mind. Good sex is morenot product.
Many couples in their 60s, 70s, 80s still have rewarding sex lives. But this can happen once they appreciate that sex is what happens when they interact with each other, as they touch, smell, see, hear their partners and each other. Thus, holding hands, looking at each other across the room, looking forward to being together at last at the end of the day, maybe just kissing, maybe “fooling around,” maybe intercourse.
In my experience, the above acceptance happens much more quickly when the couple not only accepts, but fully embraces, that “then was then, and now is now.” Sure, one might have been able to go four, five rounds a night six days of the week, and sure one could do all sorts of positions much more easily, and all that was sure as hell fun.
Inom ka ng aloe vera gel para mawala yung dryness hahahahahaha
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