[Two Pronged] Is first-time sex always this painful?

Rappler's Life and Style section runs an advice column by couple Jeremy Baer and clinical psychologist Dr Margarita Holmes.

At this point, I don’t see why people love sex. And I just can’t wait for my hymen to break so that I can finally find out how good sex should feel. I am 34 years old, btw. No hormonal or biological issues as far as I know.The hymen has been causing problems since almost the beginning of time. In the era BTP its almost ceremonial breaking when consummating marriage was supposedly proof of virginity which meant that the goods acquired by the husband – his wife – was in pristine condition.

Is it really THAT painful when having sex for the first time? Not necessarily to the degree you have described. I do hope that you will consider at least some of these not only while you wait to resolve your hymen problem but long after as well.Thank you very much for you letter. Mr Baer, by this one sentence – “is your problem actual pain or rather the fear of pain”— – hows he’s taken into account that your hymen is not necessarily the problem, and I agree with everything he writes.

No. it dos not hve to be painful

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