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'You are likely to see many husbands and wives who think that the problem in the marriage does not come from them, but from their spouses. They never see anything wrong with themselves; rather, they keep looking at their spouse as the problem.' Marriage

And it was also very clear that he was not enjoying it at all. The lady was alarmed, when we were alone and I informed her that she would soon lose her man, if care was not taken. To her, she was trying to teach the man good manners, but to the man, it was not funny. I made her realise that no man likes a woman behaving superior to him. No normal woman also likes being seen as the inferior partner in a marriage.

You are likely to see many husbands and wives who think that the problem in the marriage does not come from them, but from their spouses. They never see anything wrong with themselves; rather, they keep looking at their spouse as the problem. Such people always like pointing out things that were not done properly. It is so glaring that such persons will make the marriage hard and tough for their spouses. They will always watch out for areas to correct and areas to point out a fault.

If you are in a marriage relationship and you keep seeing yourself as the superior partner, while your spouse is inferior, you need to take a good and critical look at yourself. The superiority complex of some spouses is doing a lot of harm to their marriages. They need to deliberately become more humble, even if they think they know more than their spouses. They should use their knowledge to make their spouses feel better and not to feel inferior.

You cannot maintain a healthy relationship, if you feel superior to your partner. Nobody enjoys having somebody who behaves as a superior boss as a spouse. You need to put yourself in the shoes of that person you think is permanently inferior to you in wisdom, knowledge, understanding and all departments of life. When you do, you will realise that as you would not like it, so does that spouse not like it one bit. Check it, if you are always seeing yourself as having done nothing wrong.

 

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