Kids recognize racial differences by six-months-old. And raising them to be compassionate, antiracist and self-aware requires ongoing conversations. Social justice and parenting expert Traci Baxley shares examples of what to say when talking to children about race.
It's also great to talk about the"why" and"how":"Did you know that everyone's skin color is different because of the amount of melanin in their bodies? The more you have, the darker your skin. When you have less melanin in your body, your skin will look lighter."Our race and ethnicity are part of our identities, and they bring us pride and a sense of belonging. But it is also important to note that race is a constructed concept that has changed over time.
Talk about your own biases and any stereotypes that your children may have internalized:"Sometimes we have assumptions about people based on their race or gender. Do you ever do that? Let me tell you about a time that I did and how I reminded myself to be mindful of that."3. They create space for change
The goal is to combat racism actively, not to be complacent in your position of belief in equity. Support your kid's natural desire to help others through thoughtful conversations:"Sometimes we have to speak up when things aren't fair, even when it's hard. It's okay to tell me you are scared. I get scared, too."
The more you see gaps in your children's knowledge, the more you know what specific conversations are needed.
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