'Throughout the years, I've felt like I'm always the one giving.'
, and a few small problems she was dealing with. I was grateful, as always, that she trusted me enough to share her life with me. And I recognize that it takes a lot for a person to be vulnerable and share their problems with someone else, so I shared some of my insights into the situation. When I thought she was done, I tried to be open with her about something I was struggling with. But I got bulldozed — again.We got interrupted by one of the kids, so our conversation got sidetracked a bit.
and how much I give, give, give. I threw myself a giant pity party. I just wanted to be heard, but I felt that even if I screamed, she wouldn't listen.But this past weekend, the kids and I went over to my sister-in-law's house again — and my perspective changed. We chatted as we always do whileoutside. I asked her questions about her life, and again, she didn't inquire about mine. As we were sitting there, I studied her face and her mannerisms.
After that revelation, I've learned to accept our relationship for what it is. I'm honored to be the giver — of my time, my ear, and my love, regardless of what I get in return — because I know how much she values it. My resentment has evaporated, and I'm thankful that I have a sister-in-law who not only trusts me, but needs me, too. I'm glad that I somehow burst my own bubble and got off my high horse.
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