My mom asked for a divorce. My dad made his mother his pension beneficiary — then took his own life. Now my mom and grandma are feuding. Who’s right?

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My mom asked for a divorce. My dad made his mother his pension beneficiary — then took his own life. Now my mom and grandma are feuding. Who’s right?
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Dear Moneyist, My father made his mother his pension beneficiary after my mother said she wanted a divorce. Then he killed himself. I'm stuck in the middle of this fight. Who is right?

On May 30, 2018 my mother moved out all her belongings and informed my father that she was leaving him after 30 years of marriage, and that she would be seeking a divorce.

Now my grandmother and my mother are fighting over the pension. I know he didn’t list me as the beneficiary as he knew I would share the money with my mom if she needed it. My grandmother and mother both have lawyers, and they both say that they are going to get this pension. It’s been dragging on for nearly two years.

Also see:My stepfather and mother pooled resources to buy a home. My mom died in 2003 and he just passed away. His kids are selling their house c am I entitled to anything? The court and/or company will likely make a ruling sooner rather than later, and that will take it out of your mother and grandmother’s hands. The healthiest move for you now would be to remove yourself from the feud between these two women and, even better, ask them not to discuss the issue with you. This is a stressful enough time, and feeling trapped between these two family matriarchs cannot be easy. My hunch is the court will find in favor of your mother.

Read also: ‘He owed a lot of back taxes.’ My ex-husband forgot to split a $100,000 investment account — then he died. Can his estate come after me for the money?

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