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After nine years of waiting for him to propose, I finally decided to take matters into my own hands and popped the question myself. His response? He said he’d need to “see what his finances look like” -- and then a week later, he broke up with me via text.What are your thoughts on situations like this? Should women ever propose, or does this only set them up for heartbreak if the feelings aren’t mutual?: First and foremost, it sounds like you dodged a bullet. Thank goodness he didn’t say yes.
This situation taught you a valuable lesson, which is that actions speak louder than words. If someone isn’t showing consistent effort or commitment, it’s often a sign that they may not be ready for the relationship you deserve.You deserve someone who’s as excited about building a future with you as you are with them.I have two grown children who are doing well, both married, and one is expecting my first grandson. I’m a widow; their dad passed away 10 years ago.
I’ve continued to send gifts for birthdays and Christmas, but I rarely get acknowledgment unless I follow up. I never receive gifts in return -- just a card from my daughter at Christmas, the same one she sends to everyone.
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