A reader is unsure if she should attend the funeral of her ex-husband who is currently in bad health.
We divorced over 20 years ago and ended on bad terms, so we haven’t communicated since. But we share two adult children who have maintained a relationship with him.
I’m struggling with whether or not I should attend his funeral when the time comes. Part of me feels like it would be respectful and supportive for our children if I were there. However, my current husband doesn’t think it’s necessary for me to go, given our past and the long time we’ve been apart.When the time comes, talk to your children about their wishes and how they would feel about your presence at the funeral.If you decide not to attend, sending flowers is a respectful gesture. You could also write a personal note to your children expressing your condolences and support.
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