A reader asks for advice on how to approach her sister who is planning to drop out of college.
She’s always been a bright student, but she says she’s overwhelmed and doesn’t see the point in continuing.
Our parents are devastated, and they’ve asked me to talk to her since we’re very close. I want to help her without pushing too hard or making her feel worse. I’m worried that if I handle this wrong, it might damage our relationship. I want to support her, but I also believe that finishing her degree is important.Ask her to share what specifically is making her want to drop out. Sometimes, just talking about her struggles can help her see things more clearly. Avoid jumping in with solutions right away; let her get everything off her chest.
It might also be helpful to remind Jenna of her long-term goals and how her degree could play a role in achieving them. Sometimes, the immediate stress can cloud the bigger picture. Lastly, reassure her that your relationship won’t change no matter what she decides. Let her know you support her, whether she stays in school or chooses a different path.“How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is out now! Annie Lane’s second anthology -- featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation -- is available as a paperback and e-book. VisitIf you purchase a product or register for an account through a link on our site, we may receive compensation.
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