Advice from Annie Lane.
A lifelong friend of mine moved to Utah a little over a year ago with a man twice her age. They met in a similar career field and travel together. She has been helping take care of his 10-year-old son.
We were best friends all of our childhood, and even as we got older, we remained close to varying degrees. Before she left, she promised we’d remain in touch and still try to see each other when possible. We even got together for lunch when she was back in town a few months after the initial move. We had a really nice time. At least, I thought we did.
Since September, I haven’t heard back from her. I have texted and feel nervous to call for some reason. My wife and parents say maybe the relationship she’s in is isolating her and she’s unable to reach out. I thought being with a man that much older was weird, but my friend has always been a capable, independent woman, so I’m just not sure.Dear Best Friend Forever:
The best way to find out why she has not texted you back is to pick up the phone and call her. She is your best friend! This is especially true if you feel that something is wrong with her relationship. She would need a friend.She could also be busy taking care of his 10-year-old son. Regardless of the reason, communication is the answer to your question. The best communication is done face to face, but if you don’t want to make a trip, start with a phone call and not just a text.
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