... if I try to make him move, I have to sell the house if he won’t take my offer, and I would have to split my pension with him. How do I move on without going broke at 68 years old?
DEAR ANNIE: My husband and I will celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary this year. Here’s the problem: I caught him sleeping with a friend of ours three years ago at our home while I was at work. I became suspicious and set up a nanny cam, and it was all on video.
I kicked him out of the house, and he set himself up a tiny house out behind our garage. He tries to act like nothing happened. He got to where he would use his key and let himself into my house like he still lives here. I have now changed the locks. It’s hard to move on when he’s in the back of our garage. I don’t want him back; I do know that. I’ve always said if you can’t trust a person, there is no point in being with him. My problem is if I try to make him move, I have to sell the house if he won’t take my offer, and I would have to split my pension with him. How do I move on without going broke at 68 years old? Thanks for your input.
DEAR COPING: You have to consult an attorney. Not sure if you are divorced yet, but the house would be dealt with -- one way or another -- in the divorce settlement.
United States Latest News, United States Headlines
Similar News:You can also read news stories similar to this one that we have collected from other news sources.
Dear Annie: Don’t let kids have presents until they write thank-you notesIn today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane shares a letter from a reader with another way parents can teach their children to say 'thank you' for gifts they've received.
Read more »
Dear Annie: Man puts mom and sister ahead of wife and kidsI want to know if I am in the wrong for wanting my husband to take care of his wife and kids before taking care of his mom and sister.
Read more »
Dear Annie: My husband tells his mom and sister important things before he tells meAdvice from Annie Lane.
Read more »
Dear Annie: Financial considerations have me second-guessing a divorce with my unfaithful husbandIn today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane has some advice for a reader who wants to move on from her broken marriage, but worries divorce will leave her in financial perils as she retires.
Read more »
Dear Annie: How do I resist my father-in-law’s advances?Advice from Annie Lane.
Read more »
Dear Abby: My husband said he’d cheat on me if he had the chanceDear Abby weighs in on an unfaithful husband and a mother’s concerns with her daughter’s weight gain.
Read more »