Advice from Annie Lane.
I’ve made the decision to distance myself from my sister, who exhibits narcissistic, dramatic, needy and demanding behavior.
Unfortunately, she simply cannot respect my boundaries. She would be kind and polite when she wanted something, but her response would quickly turn into anger, abuse and manipulation when things didn’t go her way. Although I love my sister and miss the good times we shared, I can no longer tolerate her toxic behavior. It’s a difficult decision, but ultimately, it’s what’s healthiest for me.
That said, don’t forget that people can change. It might be worth checking in with her periodically to see if her behavior has shifted and if the relationship can be rekindled in a healthier way. Wishing you the best as you navigate this challenging situation.: I read your column and the letter from “Estranged” about her sister, and I can relate.
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