She is hesitant to marry him because he’s always bringing up his first wife, who died years ago.
After some time, he went on to marry another woman and had his daughter. That wife got involved in drugs and cheated on him. His health deteriorated, and he ended up having lifesaving surgery. He now has a great job, no longer drinks, and we are generally happy.
He wants us to get married, but I am reluctant. I don't want to marry someone who doesn't want to be buried next to ME when they pass. Do you think I’m being too sensitive about this? I’m not a jealous person, but I feel like he puts her on a pedestal, but I’m the one who takes care of our family, and I feel like I deserve to be number one. What’s your take?My chief concern would be directed to your guy’s daughter, whom he seems to include in some of his musings about his late wife. Imagine being told at that tender age that your very existence is only the result of a tragedy that happened well before you were born.
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