Essay: We spent most of our time seeking pleasure and avoiding pain. But a fulfilling life sometimes requires choosing to suffer, writes psychologist Paul Bloom.
In the search for a meaningful life, simply seeking pleasure isn’t enough. We need struggle and sacrifice.
Oct. 15, 2021 10:55 am ETWhen life is going well, we can forget how vulnerable we are. But reminders are everywhere. There is always the possibility of pain—a sudden ache in the lower back, a cracked shin, the slow emergence of a throbbing headache. Or emotional distress, such as realizing that you just used Reply All to reveal an intimate secret. Such examples only touch the surface. There is seemingly no limit to the misery we can experience, often at the hands of others.
The simplest theory of human nature is that we work as hard as we can to avoid such experiences. We pursue pleasure and comfort; we hope to make it through life unscathed. Suffering and pain are, by their very nature, to be avoided. The tidying guru Marie Kondo became famous by telling people to throw away possessions that don’t “spark joy,” and many would see such purging as excellent life advice in general.Read more: The Wall Street Journal »
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Even the years ago this would just be an expected fact of life. In 2021 we need article in WSJ to explain that life has down notes. No matter what you do. Mevlid Kandili, which is the day of the last prophet Prophet Muhammad (SAV), will be realized on this day. Have a blessed mawlid. Oh give yourself a break dude, you Americans never, never ever let yourselves suffer, you let other people suffer to make you happy. Isn't that stupid ? And you journalists are just so CHEAP that you don't hesitate to galvanize your stupidity.
The usual woke nonsense. What he spend his time with is coming up with a feasible plan on how to advance civilization to a level where psychopathy is a irrelevant minority. We have the resources, but seem unable to muster the will. Yeah that’s called gaslighting
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Why I won't wait to take Social SecurityOPINION: Delay taking Social Security until age 70? No thanks. The men in my family died young and I want to retire early and enjoy the rest of my life, Juan Fourneau writes. Yes, but how long might your wife live? If she inherits his now smaller benefit how might that effect her? All I see in the OP is “I” and “my”. SS planning should involve “us” and “our”.
Why I prefer my neighborhood diner to the 'world's best restaurant'Sure, you can travel to Copenhagen and eat bee larvae at top-ranked restaurant Noma, but wouldn't you prefer a good cheeseburger at your local diner?
Why People Are Not Budging Despite Mask-Wearing NudgingEfforts to persuade people to wear masks do not do any better among Democrats than they do among Republicans. eugen_dimant explains why.
On “Dark Fic,' Morality, and Why Critical Thinking Is VitalThe latest FanService dives into why fans find themselves interacting with “dark” content as consumers or creators ⤵️ bit of nuance I personally observed: yes most people who read dark fics read it for completely valid right reasons. but obviously, some don't. problem is shaming people for reading these might push potentially vulnerable people into isolated groups with potentially harmful people
Why Sarah Hyland and Wells Adams Waited Three Months to Have Sex'It was this very long waiting game that was really, really sexy' (via toofab) TooFab TMI TooFab oh TooFab Did we need to know this!!!