Being a favorite or being the least-favored child in a family can affect a person’s ability to successfully navigate adult relationships and work. For example, one of the central tasks of the college years is to develop a sense of identity — that is, a sense of who you are in the world.
A woman I saw for psychotherapy complained about her younger brother, who she dubbed “The Prince.” Their mother adored this only son and required her daughters to wait on him. “I remember him sitting at the kitchen table and us having to bring him his food, clear it away and wash the dishes, while he did nothing.” This memory became a symbol for an entire lifetime of pain and bitter anger at her mother.
It’s also not clear that being preferred is always a good thing for the favorite child. Wood said: “Being the favorite can be loaded — like in those fairy tales where the fairy’s gifts are both a curse and a blessing.
And, the question of which parent gives a child preferential treatment can sometimes be as important as the favoritism itself. One man I worked with knew he was his mother’s pet, but he felt rejected by his father and spent much of his life seeking approval from older men who were father-substitutes.
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