No Caps, No Gowns: For Many In The Class Of 2020, Commencement Is Called Off

For many college students, walking across the stage isn't just a celebration, it's a recognition of years of hard work, and often sacrifices from their families. What happens when it's cancelled?

4/1/2020 4:26:00 PM

For many college students, walking across the stage is a recognition of years of hard work — and often sacrifices from their families. But colleges across the country have had to postpone or outright cancel graduations amid the coronavirus crisis.

For many college students, walking across the stage isn't just a celebration, it's a recognition of years of hard work, and often sacrifices from their families. What happens when it's cancelled?

LA Johnson/NPRtoggle captionLA Johnson/NPRStill others, like Trinity Washington University, a small private school in Washington, D.C., has said it's looking for a date in June to reschedule an in-person ceremony."If we can't do it in June, we are very committed to doing a commencement ceremony, full regalia, full pomp and circumstance," says Patricia McGuire, president of Trinity."When we get to do it, it's going to be the biggest darn party we've ever had."

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When Sandra Mendez, who's set to graduate from Trinity this May, heard the news about postponing graduation, she was heartbroken:"I have been waiting for this day since I was little."For Mendez, graduating from college wasn't always a sure thing. After high school she took some time off, before heading to college in Wisconsin. She stayed for two years, then moved back home to North Carolina."I was gonna give up on school altogether, just cause it was

wayexpensive," she says.But a scholarship paved the way for her to start at Trinity three years ago, and now, she's got enough credits to graduate with a degree in biology."I feel like I've been always trying to prove myself to my family, like, I'm going to do this, I'm going to do this."

Her family was planning to finally visit campus for her graduation ceremony. Instead, their travel plans are cancelled. She's lucky that her part-time job at Trader Joe's is still bringing in some money, and says her future plans to become a veterinarian may be on hold for a bit.

"My parents were devastated."Celebrating graduation wasn't really about her, says Monica Ferrufino, who's finishing up at California State University, Los Angeles. It was really going to be for her parents."When they cancelled graduation, it was exactly 60 days prior to our scheduled commencement," she explains. She knows that because her mother and father kept track, counting down the days, crossing each one off on their calendar. When she told them it was off, her mom cried."My parents didn't get to finish high school," she says,"so for them, seeing their daughter graduating college was just beyond their dreams."

Some ideas to celebrateWhen Yolanda Norman, a professor at the University of Houston, started hearing from students disappointed about graduation, she immediately thought of her own missed graduation years ago. "I don't just empathize with what's happening, I really know what it feels like to have this moment taken away," says Norman. So she started crowdsourcing a list of ways families and schools can still celebrate.

Yolanda Norman, a researcher of first-generation college students, crowdsourced a list of ideas on how schools can hold ceremonies amid the Covid-19 pandemic.LA Johnson/NPRtoggle captionLA Johnson/NPR"Someone said: 'Can we just please have a graduation and stand six feet apart?'"she says, laughing."It's not going to happen, but it would be awesome."

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Also on Norman's list: a national ceremony hosted by a fellow first-generation college student, first lady Michelle Obama. And of course the more likely option, gradations over video chat with friends and family."I know students' families are going to celebrate them. You better believe we're gonna have a lot of videos of backyard graduations, house graduations and quarantine graduations." She says her hope is that schools curate and share these videos so other students, parents and faculty can share in the joy.

"I'm gonna get the degree either way.""It's just a ceremony," says Alexandrea Mares, who lives with her grandparents and attends California State University, Northridge. Right now, she says she's far more concerned with keeping herself and her family healthy."You know what? My health and their health is what matters most," she says."At the end of the day, it's the degree that you get and

I'm gonna get the degree either way at the end of the semester."That's not to say she isn't extremely proud of her six-year journey:"Even though we're not having a graduation, I'm still excited to get my diploma in the mail and hang it up on the wall."

She's planning on having a graduation party indoors, with just her and her grandparents. Because she says, those are the people who really matter. Read more: NPR »

My daughter finished her last college class for her bachelors of science OregonState 2 weeks ago & that school never cared about her graduation. Wasn't even going to say her name. She is highiskcovid19 & one of few survivors of anaplastic astrocytoma stage 3 brain tumor age 1. Celebrate when you get the diploma at home!

I have a high school and college graduate this year. Was worried about how to coordinate them both on the same weekend but now just worried they'll not happen. What a year for these kids. cmclymer For the ones who already paid the graduation packages, give them their money back. Venmo, wire transfer, direct deposit,

People are dying, but leave it to NPR to find more superficial victims DefundNPR. Wah. But at least they might survive COVID-19 if they are made to stay at home. College = Wealth Extraction Scheme .... stop going to these indoctrination centers cmclymer I so relate. I'll earn my Master's degree in May, but without graduation - GWtweets has canceled in-person ceremonies and is doing it virtually instead. After 3 years of working full-time and doing school part-time, it sucks that those years of hard work aren't being recognized.

I’m one of them 🥺

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