By the time our oldest son turned two, we knew Isaac was hyperactive. He demonstrated all the classic signs: high energy, inattention, and impulsivity. He was the kid running around parking lotsJayden is one cool customer. When I tackle Isaac and tickle him, he screams and wiggles and kicks and fights back. Jayden just lies there giggling. He loves getting tickled. In fact, he loves physical interactions like wrestling, bear hugs, and tickling. He’s just not the excitable type.
Nothing fazes him, which makes him an ideal athlete. In football, soccer, and basketball, he’s fearless in the strictest definition of the word. He doesn’t overcome his fears; he literally has no fear. I’ve seen coaches lay into him at practices and games for not hustling or for missing a tackle. I’ve seen the same coaches bring other players to tears. Jayden just nods his helmet and responds calmly, “Yes, Sir.” In the car on the way home, I ask him if getting yelled at bothers him.
He nods his head and says, “Sure.” Then a few silent moments pass before he asks if I’ll get him a milkshake.I wonder sometimes if anything gets through to him. Does it bother him when teachers get on his case about his messy desk or his incomplete homework? Does it bother him when his mom or I get on his case for the infinity-th time about putting his plate in the dishwasher or his clothes in the hamper?. We gave up giving him complicated chores and chore lists a long time ago.
Once he started struggling in school, we saw more action was needed. When we visited with our oldest son’s neurologist, we told him, “He has obvious attention issues that are hindering his school performance, but he isn’t hyper, so doesn’t that mean he doesn’t have ADHD?”
Sometimes more difficult because it is more 'invisible'
Sometimes I wish they hadn’t done away w/ differentiating between ADD & ADHD. The H can mislead! Many girls (like me/but not all) tend to present more inattentive than hyperactive & are overlooked. Glad to see people talking about inattention w/out hyperactivity & impulsivity!
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