I'm a nurse who feels punished for trying to be the 'good guy'

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'I feel punished for having to be the 'good guy.' I have to send my 3 1/2-year-old child away. I won't get to visit her. I won't get to hug her. I won't get to tuck her in at night...and many of my coworkers have had to do the same.'

outbreak. It has been reprinted here with permission."When this is all said and done, we hope to take her on a vacation to spend time together," she told"Good Morning America."Jason and I just had to have a very hard conversation to send Ellie away tonight for maybe a month ... to stay with my amazing friend Anita, who did not even hesitate to keep her for us. And Ellie loves"Miss Nita.

This is the face of someone who feels punished for trying to be the"good guy." My job as an ER nurse is just that, my job; I don't ever feel like it's anything crazy or special or deserving of accolades. Jason feels the same way as a ff/medic. But, our jobs are important right now and unlike many, we are still required to work. And that work carries a high risk of being infected, or spreading this damn virus. I have already been in contact with +covid patients, and the last thing we want to do is have Ellie surrounded by the potential virus we could carry home.So, I feel punished for having to be the"good guy." I have to send my 3 1/2-year-old child away. I won't get to visit her. I won't get to hug her.

And for heaven's sake, everyone, STAY AT HOME. The sooner this crap is over the quicker my kid can come home.Edit: since this has gone viral somehow, let me just set one thing straight. Don't you DARE come at me for"getting rid of my child" and saying"you made a choice, there were other options" and"no job is worth sending my kid to a stranger to raise."

1. Sure would be a crappy day for you if all the staff in your ER weren't there because they all quit their jobs to stay at home with their kids.3. She is 15 minutes down the road, staying with someone she loves and who loves her. We didn't just wake up and decide to leave her with a stranger!

 

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God will take care of him. You have not lost anything by being good. Keep trusting in God 👍👍👍

You make sure you can do alot of Face time on a tablet to your baby! Thank you for your sacrifice!

Make your choice. Stand by being the “good guy”. Suck it up and get through it. Your child will be proud of you for years to come.

God bless you and your family, and thank you for your service to all the people you treat.

TheLastRefuge2 Many people are in this sad position. Kudos to the nurse and everyone else for helping others. However, many divorced parents w/shared custody had to make the hard decision ‘to comply’ and have one parent keep their kid(s). The other gets stuck with phone calls, FaceTime, etc.

Suck...it...the...f...up

tlshields85 You are great

Millions of people will not Forget tha Sacrifice You and So many Healthcare Workers have made!!!! Word on That!!!!

Frank__Davies We cannot thank these wonderful people enough.

I’m so sorry!

We all feel for the terrible situation of these medical professionals. On the other hand the sacrifice was tacit when they chose the profession, and took their Knightingale Pledge or Hippocratic Oath. It's not an imposition, it's a binding design of courage and dedication.

It's not all about you, honey.

Your not being punished. We believe in you. You all are giving the gift at a second chance in life. You will flourish where others wont. Your work will not go unnoticed. Prayers for tou all and your families that you cannot hold right now. Prayers for strength,love,and security.

JackHaw67979786 Thank you for all that you are doing, you are a hero!! Sending you an air hug and lots of prayers for you and your 3 year old.

CarynSpriggs

CarynSpriggs Left-right-white-black, The time has come to put all politics aside. I believe we are waking up. We have to stick together in this, we are brothers and sisters. It showed after 9/11, they want us to be divided, the virus is the best remedy of unification, dont trust Elite or news

CarynSpriggs 1 Corinthians 1:10 Now I beseech you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you; but that ye be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment

CarynSpriggs Time to unify Brothers and sisters! KNOW YOUR ENEMY

This is why all of this has to end. No one wins with this scenario.

I feel for you. You are strong. You're gonna get thru this.😷💞

Quite dramatic, its not forever

It's the job you trained for

First let me thank you for the service that you are providing , second nobody is forcing you to continue doing what you do , you have the choice to walk out and stay with your family.

This is America, our health care workers shouldn’t have to go through this kind of unsafe work environment! Just can’t believe America doesn’t even have the simple kind of protection for our health care workers! This is where the federal supposed to come in at, and take over!

Sissy

I don’t know one nurse who would act like this. Weak and grandstanding. Bitch at people like cuomo for spending billions on solar farms rather than gearing up for catastrophe in the number 1 terror target in the world.

Sorry Sorry

She is a hero

I can’t imagine being separated from my daughter. As it was I cried everyday when I had to leave her with my mother. I didn’t like being a working mother. It made me a bitter angry woman,being a mother is the most important job in the world,no wonder kids are messed up.

VeritasLuxAmor I am praying for you daily. I lift you to my Heavenly Father & ask for angels to surround you & your family for wellness & safety. I’M so thankful & appreciative of your talents. My D-I-L same profession. Demand safety equip.u need. God with U, never Alone. Ask fam Dr for meds❤️

TheLastRefuge2 This seems like bullshit but nice try

This is truly heartbreaking.

TrumpCat04 Many of our service men and women go off to serve their country for 6,9 or 12 months at at time without seeing their family. While I feel her pain, she needs a bit of perspective.

Heroes hang in there ❤️❤️❤️😄❤️❤️💧❤️❤️❤️😇😇😇😇

When does your contract renew

I am so sorry. You and your co workers are hero’s. Thank you. 🙏

God gave you this profession because he knows you can handle it. You see God at work every day and he is using you to get those strangers in those beds back to health. You are not being punished your just growing your wings, you are all ready an Angel

Nobody is forcing you to be the good guy. Quit of your heart isn't in it.

These are tough data with tough choices. You are in a fight to save us. Don’t give up. Encouragemnet from a Army Chaplian who carries no weapon in war! You got this!

Prayers

You Should be Proud of Yourself

TheLastRefuge2 Sad times we are living in..it is a shame the media shows the cost of this and at the same time defends those who caused it

No you're just having to do your profession, not a job but your profession. Duty calls, just as it does for any field that calls on you to take care of those in need. You're not being punished, you're just experiencing hardship and sacrifice.

It’s temporary and you chose this profession. Find strength in the fact that you are saving life’s and hopefully that is why you chose this profession. Thank you for your service.

vaccineplease

Your doing it now so you’ll have a tomorrow ! When this has subsided the right choices made through it will help ensure a brighter future . That’s not sad that’s being unselfish

LOYALtoTRUMP I sent mine to stay with their Dad full-time until this nonsense is over.

I feel punished, battered & bruised that I cannot watch my country's news anymore because they have sold their cabal-owned, freedom-stealing, propaganda-pushing, soul, to tyranny. *(BTW, Healthcare workers are the Sh*T! Amazing, giving, people. My daughter is one as well 🙏).

Goddamn heartbreaking af 😢 Hey media: PLEASE pound & demand REAL project status data & updates on PPE production, deliveries, inventory, needs & timelines? Hold directly responsible gov & business leaders accountable! EVERYDAY, 24x7 🤬 BeRelentless for healthcare workers 🙏

TheLastRefuge2 Another 60 minutes the trucks explode and if they don't we will fake it. Thanks for 40 years of being consistent liars

TheLastRefuge2 My coworkers and I are staying away from our older parents. We haven't sent our spouses or children away. I'm not being critical of her decision, it just seems weird that ABC just happened to find a nurse that did so. Is this going to be the next governmental demand?

O my god very bed but my b it's your baby saftey point of you

I'm a religious person. I don't say what's politically correct, but what I have been taught. True religious lessons are hard, but I want to help you the only way I can. I counted some six 'I''s in your tweet. Your devotion is heroic, but your trust in God is weak. No more 'I''s.

I can't begin to know how you are feeling right now. I'm a mental health nurse and have a patient isolated and I come home worrying about giving it to my kids. Please stay strong and hopeful. You have done what was expected of you. Much love to you and your little one xxx

Great & Historical Jops allways been made by so much sacrifice,, be sure ' god won't forget you'.

This post sets the women’s movement back 25 years.

TheLastRefuge2 The cure is worse than the disease

Signs up to be a public servant. Complains about being a public servant.

...a family of nurses here - sorry but this is 100% DRAMA

Our military have to do this everyday as well. Service appreciated.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😢

You should be 'gracious' to President Trump lol

Yea ok I really feel for you. Cry me a river when you child screams scared when you return home from deployment.

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️💚❤️💚SOOOO MUCH RESPECT 🥺🥺😥😞😞

As always thank you for the terror propaganda. Peace.

“When this is all said and done, we hope to take her on a vacation to spend time together,' she told 'Good Morning America.' No worries, you will. -America

Awww bless you Be safe Loverly Your doing an amazing job saving lives I salute you immensely

God Bless U ❤️

No good deed goes unpunished

This is the Trump era, only the good guys are punished. The conservative vision for America.

So heartbreaking.😭

🙏Pls GOD when this pandemic is over let All the nurse's be awarded the purple heart 💜 for the heroism work they have Done🙏

That's negativity showing which must not, comeon she is doing a great service to humanity and have trust that she and her daughter shall be rewarded in a way which may not be understood or felt easily so shall of all sacrificing in line of duty. Salute her and all in her class.

frontlinewarriors NURSES

I would call you an excellent mother! How lucky she is to have such an intelligent mother to know how to keep her safe. Make sure to take care of yourself in these trying times, from one nurse to another 🖐

mossman404 Sorry, it’s hard .. Keep helping.. it’s a very good thing

We can't control Covid19 bc EconomicSanctionsStopFlowOfProtectiveGearToManyCountries&Naked-Emperor refuses to order 8 Republican Governors to order people to StayHome FlowOfPeopleWillKeepActiveCovid19 + Mutations, billions at risk thanks to Emperor's FailedSanctionsPolicies

Sad

Trump:okey…………………F!

zannerina text THANKS to 20222 to donate ten dollars to a nationwide mental health service for our NURSES

Welcome to the military, this is like a deployment for healthcare workers. Stay strong

Thoughts of many US soldiers - “I feel punished for having to be the 'good guy.' I have to send my 3 1/2-year-old child away. I won't get to visit her. I won't get to hug her.”

Those are occupationals hasard!

Welcome to my world. Try doing that for 4 years. Anyways, be safe and thank you for your sacrifices. I can relate.

Figure out which guilt is bearable. My advice to you, since you're already exposed and your child is in good hands (I supposed), is to focus on staying safe so you can go back to your family when this whole thing is over. God bless you and thank you for doing what you do.

In this profession, you'll be faced with 2 guilts 1. If you quit and stay home with your child, are you ok knowing that it's your job to care for patients but decided not to? 2. The guilt of infecting your child bc you didn't want to send them away while you're exposed.

realDonaldTrump THIS IS ON YOU 👆

Same with the military when they get deployed. It’s called sacrifice.

Nurses are the ones who advocate for patients especially in times like this! Not to mention the code of ethics we live and practice by. You did what was best not only for your patients but for your family. It doesn’t mean the choice was easy or without heartache.

Please remember you do not want to take a chance of her/his contracting Coronavirus. This too will pass. Is she with family? With people you Trust? What you and your coworkers are doing is wonderful! Please speak with her often.

Such a victim! Service members leave families & risk their lives unable to have a simple facetime sometimes Either put in leave, quit or stfu begrateful behumble

Nurses are God’s Earthly Angels assigned to heal the sick among us. You and your co-workers are on the front line facing a deadly invisible enemy. I am so deeply grateful that you unselfishly use your gift to heal. I pray that God keep, protect, and bless you. Thank You...

All politicians both parties have fail us

thank you...

I’m a mother of a 3 1/2 year-old too and I truly know this punishment: not allowed to be with her! I’ll pray for you dear, be safe and be back to her soon! I’m with you and God bless! Hugs~

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ABC News. Everyone Please GIVE Your CONCERNS to OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN. He is LISTENING!(Smiling) . Always ❤️ PRAY. Sincerely Shellie Gary, Love.

Bless her nurses HealthCareWorkers

I’m a nurse and I’m not sending kids away. Leave your shoes outside, take off work clothes immediately, take a shower as soon as home. Wash your clothes if you can immediately in hot water.

You chose to, remember that.

Now you know how are troops feel when they get deployed. Thank you for your service.

The so called leaders need to do their job and act as quick as they can too.

Not punished but heroes like you make the biggest sacrifices , so the best everyone else can do to help is follow what they're told so these heroes and all of us can reunite with those we care for . Too many aren't doing this :(

If you ever find yourself wallowing in self pity over losing your job or burying loved ones read this for a little perspective.

waltgayle1 Any American who isn’t ashamed by this is a heartless, evil, sick, individual. Where are all the “support the troops” republicans from Iraq war? If anyone questioned the rational behind that pointless invasion was shouted down as not supporting troops. But it’s ok to kill nurses?

Our prayers are with you. Thank you

Heartbreaking because healthcare workers with children have to do the right things knowing their children do not understand what is going on and why they have been sent away.

So horribly sad to have your children kept from you. 😥😞

Everything’s gonna be alright

I think I understand. I have not seen my grandchildren except from a distance for 3 weeks. It is breaking my heart.

I’ll never understand why someone throws a camera in their own face and records this kind of stuff let alone post it

as you can see here the scumbag media does a good job of brainwashing the ignorant democrats

In the modern USA, the moral person often feels punished. It’s American culture now. In a utilitarian world, we’d comfort each other. Care for each other en masse. But alas, America hoards masks and materials and keeps others in danger.

stayhome y'all so we can hurry and end this plague. The lazier we are about social distancing the longer EVERYONE will be inconvenienced and more importantly, the greater the impact and heartache it brings. Social distancing DOES make a huge difference! coronavirus covid19

Nothing new, the sacrifice is worthwhile. Keep up the good work and maintain a positive attitude

I have heard so many essential workers say this. My heart goes out to these nurses and doctors they have to be there through it all. I also feel for every essential worker out their who still has to expose themselves everyday.

sorry just pray god will for u and her too

You are a soldier at war.

Kind of like a martyr ?

I understand the grief of this situation however wouldn’t you prefer to be sad for not being able to hug your child over sad that they’re infected? For the record... not a SINGLE human being on the planet has signed up for COVID-19

You should have PPE. This is not a choice you should have to make. I understand if you choose to stay with your child.

Do you want to help healthcare professionals? Stay at home and do daily exercises.

It is horrible and tragic. Unfortunately, it happens every day when military parents deploy. It also happens when parents are sent to prison. We adults may see differences as justification, but the children don’t.

Thank you for your service and your sacrifice!

This would kill me. Just know you are... Greatly Appreciated!!!!!!! 💕

We have read this before. She can resign her job and be with her baby. But she cannot go to work, then come back to touch the baby knowing full well that such would endanger the life of the baby if she gets infected

We love you! 😘🙏🏻

And they still won't give you PPE

Get back to work!

Oh bless your heart! Know your sacrifice will reap a great reward! 🙏

Everyone please give this lady the attention she so desperately desires

“Poor me! Attention, please!”

at least you still have your job/life

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