Parents often unintentionally recreate and relive past hurts from their own childhoods when raising their kids.Strategies to move on from the past include recognizing our patterns, comparing them to our parents,' and openly reflecting on it with others.By Timothy Rice, MDHow many times have we heard our friends, siblings, and ourselves say that? Are we doomed to be haunted by the ghosts of
So how do we recognize when unwelcome ghosts are visiting and most importantly, how can we interrupt these ghosts from intruding on our own plans for raising our children? and struggled to feed infant Jenny, who often went hungry and unfed. Throughout her childhood and teenage years, Jenny felt neglected. And she was.
However, after Jenny gave birth, her visions of perfect parenting slipped away. Her baby girl was not easy to feed and sometimes grimaced and turned away from Jenny. Jenny became consumed with worry about these patterns, started to feel depressed, and wondered “Am I destined to be likeYour situation is likely different than Jenny’s but here are four lessons a psychoanalyst can share with you…We don’t really know anything about our experiences as infants and toddlers.
psychoanalysis_ Repeat....'I will NEVER be like that'....'I will NEVER do that'....
psychoanalysis_ Now you can disCHARGE... much of your...'education'...from you parents... especially the negative stuff... Best Wishes from a researcher... I guess their biggest mistake was getting together... hmmmmm...
psychoanalysis_ If anyone is interested in the technique or my research, I invite you to learn more about it on my blog: My Ebook of my 10 years of research teaches the technique: As does my paperback-
psychoanalysis_ These are some things the technique works on... suicidal thoughts, flashbacks, panic attacks, Aggravation, Anger, Hate, Hostility, sadness, grief, guilt, worthlessness, hopelessness, Fears Stress, Intimidation, Shyness, Worry, Horror, Terror, Panic and MORE.
psychoanalysis_ I do the same on Narcissists. Their actions, emotions, behaviors. Then I feel BETTER. This separates their energy from our energy EMOTIONALLY.
psychoanalysis_ How is this done. The technique I teach looks AT that action, emotion, behavior... DEFINES IT... 'That was Father's......' insert item. Address it as HIS charge 'That was Father's Anger Charge', for example... and do the technique with that as the realization....
psychoanalysis_ Step 5... PROCESS YOUR PARENTS!!!! What is lingering in you is an afterimage of how your parents behaved... PROCESS their actions, emotions, and behaviors. This SEPARATES a person's own, from their parents. Or anyone else for that matter. It is a matter of processing....
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