Dear Care and Feeding: We Let Our Kids Go Feral During Quarantine. Can We Bring Back Discipline Now?

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From bedtimes to screen time, we let it all go during quarantine. What now?

I’m hoping you can help me wrap my head around shifting some bad habits that have developed in our household during the pandemic. We’ve been lax with our 9 and 6-year-old kids pretty much ever since schools shut down in March. There was a little bit of learning, but certainly not much. Then when summer hit, everything got way looser. Later bedtimes. More screen time. Less daily reading. Spoonful of cookie butter before dinner? Sure, why not. Then some more screen time.

School is starting in a few weeks and I have a pit in my stomach every time I think about it. How do we get this family back on track?Well, the past is the past. Let’s look forward together. You have kids, blessedly, who are old enough to have real conversations with, especially your oldest. No one is going to enjoy this, least of all you, but it doesn’t matter because it has to happen. I don’t know how lax bedtimes have gotten, but lots of families are more chill about summer bedtimes, and kids can understand that “the school year” has different rules, however weird and artificial this “school year” will be for you for the next while. I’m not concerned about a spoon of cookie butter before dinner, or bed for that matter, as long as tooth-brushing is being done well.

The more you can proactively talk about getting ready for fall, the easier it will be on everyone. Have the kids help you make some poster-board schedules. Everyone likes to feel invested in the process. Stickers and some school supplies go a long way. Don’t beat yourself up about the March–August slide into chaos. It’s happened. Pretend to be excited about the fall, and you might just fool yourself into getting aMy blessings are with you.

 

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Sounds like summer! Time to go back to “school”... but to a distance learning routine. So they’ll have to go to bed at a decent time and get up and login or check in... not to worry!

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