By Dr. June Hall, Tribune News Service (TNS)
Dear Dr. June: Sometime I’m grumpy at work because I really can’t stand my job. My friends at work called me out on being grumpy and I laughed because I couldn’t deny it. But it did help me with my attitude.
My mom told me to go back and finish school. I thought about it about it but I don’t like school either.
I don’t like this job but I have friends at the job and they make me laugh. I have a good work schedule too and I’m scared I might not get another good schedule if I get another job. That’s why I don’t know what to do. Do you think I should try to find something else? Signed, Grumpy Girl
Dear Grumpy Girl: There are many people who don’t like their job but have to make the most of it until a better opportunity comes along. In other words, a grumpy attitude whether you leave or stay is not helpful.
There are two concerns.
The first is losing the job you have due to a negative disposition, which can impact the quality of your work. The next is a poor reference or not receiving a reference at all. Remember this if you decide to look elsewhere.
As for now, staying at your current job sounds like a good plan while you determine what will make a more enjoyable alternative for you. You do have friends, which makes it easier. You also have a good schedule.
Stay and improve your attitude while doing some career assessments and figuring out what job will be more enjoyable for you. Once you make that decision, then you can train for it and work toward changing your career.
Dr. June Hall. (Timothy Hall/TNS)TNS
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