I am a 23-year-old woman and just had sex for the first time. I pretended to enjoy it but it was uncomfortable – I just wanted it to be over, and was relieved that it didn’t go on too long. I now feel disgusted and ashamed. I don’t want to try it again, but I don’t know how to tell the guy this. We haven’t been dating long, so I feel like it would be best to break it off. I feel sick at the thought of ever having sex again.
Its called 'doing it my way' and not God's way. Sadly we all suffer in this way until we gain godly wisdom which comes from scripture, the fear of, and faith in God.
You are doing it wrong...!
If you don’t feel disgusted and ashamed you didn’t do it right 😂😂
What the hell was that 'article' about? Miss Gina advices from page 5?
And how do you think the 🐐 felt ?
Who found Melanias diary?
Don’t jump into bed with just anyone .. Wait till you marry..
That is a real situation many people find themselves in. It points some physical and psychological problems, I've come to believe, after having had sex with many people and discovering this in several of my partners afterward. It appears to manifest itself due to bible teachings.
I wish Boris and his partner would keep the stuff private !
Did the Earth move ?
Live and learn lol lol 😂
Yeah either give up the religion and self hatred or get a better partner. We are all just mammals after all. Sex is just sex
You did'nt like the taste?
Woooooaaha stop the press
That’s probably the gonorrhea making you feel that way.
So, let me get this straight, you had a bad first time and instead of seeking help from your friends or family, you choose the internet, the place where empathy goes to die.
Is this news? Seriously? Tell your diary love, not the public
Someone who uses the loo regularly shouldn't find sex so disgusting.
This is how I felt the first time I had Mountain Dew. I mean seriously, its like drinking paracetamol.
your partner should have noticed this and was a PIG if he kept going !!
smoerbit
Next time, try it with someone you love. Maybe start with yourself...?
I felt like that after losing my virginity with my best friend. I couldn’t look him in the eye at breakfast. I couldn’t rub his belly, run my fingers through his coat, take him for a walk, nothing. I feared it could be the end of us. We’re good now, but it was a close run thing
The shame is the effects of a couple thousand years of indoctrination. It's okay to feel good and it's okay to want to feel good, if you come to that realization you'll be happier
you can't drive a car after just one lesson!
Lol
Wow! The Guardian is now click baiting with sex.
The more I have twitter the less I feel disgusted or ashamed.
Give us partner’s name.
Play more golf and really feel disgusted and ashamed.
Slut!!
Ahhh the Guardian, the gift that keeps giving, comedy gold.
Wait till you take it you the arse then, that's something else
Happens after the first time, you should be fine after a few more tries...
Sharing this experience with public should help you feel less ashamed... I’m guessing
It's normal. Love and puke same ting.
Boris Johnson’s girlfriend needs to stop sharing
😢
Can we all just take a minute to reflect on the fact that this stupid, stupid article was printed...by the Guardian of course.
I feel like that after reading the guardian
Maybe she likes women 🤷🏾♂️
It's over hyped and over rated anyway.
It gets better
It looks like you are catholic. The first time you are disgusted and ashamed, the second you feel only guilty, and the third time you'll become addicted.
mikayla_sheddan get in line babe
'I had sex ...... and now I feel disgusted and ashamed' Sounds like sex with Trump.
I feel whoever wrote this article or is giving the advice sounds like a man hater 😂 on a serious note if you don’t want sex then don’t, but surely no ones first time is enjoyable, my partner would probably say it’s still not 😂 I thought it got better though 😂 its all about a
I advise haydar dumen
Happens when you partner is a 🐕
Ok.
What did you have sex with?
You might have been doing it wrong.
Prolly cos deep down u knew u didn’t focus on ur own pleasure but figured the act of sex was about how u can pleasure the man!! Thus the shame! Women shud b ashamed when they have sex & they don’t consider their own pleasures! If u had been pleasured by ur man, it b different!
Why did you do it in the first instance
he/she must have been real ugly
LOL. Guardian nursing inadequates still.
Time 2 is better.
If you feel ashamed, the best thing to do is share your experiences with strangers on the internet.
Yeah. It’s not them, it’s you. And keep your weirdo problems between you and your shrink. Thanks.
And who's forcing you to have sex? If we (people) do sex, is because we enjoy it a lot.
Celibacy is the way👍
You're on the right track! Now USE those feelings for enjoyment, and you'll be a perv like all the rest of the world!
You’re doing it right then, keep it up 👍
We are all confused..it’s called being human !
I'm queer (asexual) so i understand. Yeah must you will not understand, i don't understand myself on this point too. 🏳️🌈
CLEARLY, you prove you're desperate for a topic...
Go see a shrink. You've got issues
U went to test the use of your private parts and the satisfaction derived from the consumption of product is a minute u test it .
jordystringer96 here for you bro
Couldn’t you have written anything else?When journalism is dying out, this is there last resort.
Look to be fair, in a couple of weeks time she'll be gagging for cock. I know I was.
And.... click... click... click... click... Whatever happened to serious journalism?
DonalMeegan_15
You’re doing it wrong.
Your running neck and neck with the Mail for today’s, Banal Story of the Day. You just might have just clinched it with this garbage piece. Bravo. 👏🏽 👏🏽
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Another slow day for the Guardian. Oh, apparently the sex will get better, give it a couple more does, if not find another person who know what they are doing, I'm sure you'll enjoy it then.
Why? sexuality is natural feelings. What do you expect, robots?
Next time don't let him put it in your butt
This is an absolute disgrace. My 10 year old daughter has just seen this come up on twitter and asked me what “sex” is. All this smut and rubbish this time of the morning, I honestly though better of The Guardian!! Shall be following for my news elsewhere!!
Apart from that, what was it like?
That's why am scared of having sex
do we really care. bugger off
Yes dear, heterosexual sex is disgusting and an unnatural practice. Gay sex is where it's at, better for the environment as less babies, go Vegan too whilst your about it, unless you want to be viewed as a freak.......................
The fact people are blaming this on the woman, dissuading her from more casual sex and saying she should only experience sexual pleasure in a loving relationship is embarrassing
This teen vogue?
Sounds like you’re doing it right then.
'The Garbagian'
Tell your partner to try the vag next time
Who are these people writing such shit for this newspaper?
Hahaha. Get a grip
YOU WILL GET USED TO IT
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