'Will he realise the grass isn’t greener?'
Very very long story. I will try and speed it up. husband started an affair two years ago with a woman he met at work. It was sexting and texting at first. Then it was 5 months of meeting up once a week to sleep together. Before COVID hit and lockdown forced them to begging sexting and general texting
Suxzannah W20/07/2021 at 4:29 pmHi Sarah,I’m sorry you feel so desperate to want a man back who does not hold you as his wife in high esteem, that he’s confusing you to think you both have a chance. For your own sake, you’ve got to wake up and smell the coffee or whatever it takes for you to realise he’ll NEVER be yours alone the way a wife and husband should be. He probably knows you’ll always be waiting for him to come back and pick up the leftovers. He’s no good to you or any other women. Why do this to yourself? Don’t you think you’re worth better. Don’t be the naive cliche who thinks everything will be just dandy if he just comes home to me. It won’t. Listen to that voice in your head (if it’s there saying he’s no good to me or anyone. He’s a dirty, ugly rat). Don’t listen to your heart that is aching for his love. He won’t be thinking of you when he makes love to you. He’ll be just using your body and telling you sweet nothing. And then he’ll be thinking. My wife believes anything I say. These kind of men should never have a relationship with women. Your just feeding their narcissistic egos that makes them keep doing just what he’s doing to you. He will never have respect for you Sarah. No one will read your story and tell you to wait for him to come back. People will just feel sorry for you that your waiting for an idiot, disrespectful, undecided, selfish little boy in a mans body. Come on! Time to stop!! Can’t say more than that. Hope you begin to realise. x
6 likesemma f(471)20/07/2021 at 4:29 pmi feel really sorry for you that u are allowing him to treat u that way.You say u have 4 children how would you feel if one of ur sons treated his wife like this. Or ur daughters husband treated her like this.My husband would be out the door with only the txting and sexting. You need to see yourself as more.
He’s treating you like trash and ur letting him which he will continue to do unless u grow a backbone and put a stop to it.Think of your children. You and them deserve better than this. please don’t let him continue to walk over u. X6 likesLucy H(1343) headtopics.com
20/07/2021 at 4:35 pmSo this might not seem the best solution and will get a lot of criticism for if I’m sure but he has told you he loves you and also loves her and she will always be in the picture.have your thought about an open marriage? He can see her and be up front about it but at the same times means you could too.
it’s not ideal but if you don’t want to lose him you could try it for a couple of months or even suggest if to him.1 likeDee B(8)20/07/2021 at 5:12 pmYou’ve never been mad at him?!!Seriously…… I think you need to question your self esteem and willingness to accept someone who has very little respect for you. He will likely come back to you (as you are sat ‘being easy’ waiting around for him) Until his next affair. How do you think men become serial cheaters. Pls talk to your close friends and family about this.
4 likesCan't find your answer?Create a threadDee B(8)20/07/2021 at 5:12 pmYou’ve never been mad at him?!!Seriously…… I think you need to question your self esteem and willingness to accept someone who has very little respect for you. He will likely come back to you (as you are sat ‘being easy’ waiting around for him) Until his next affair. How do you think men become serial cheaters. Pls talk to your close friends and family about this.
1 likeNatalie W(1112)20/07/2021 at 5:45 pmHas there ever been any instances were another man has shown an interest in you, how would he feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Maybe you need to ask him to watch the kids one night and you go out with you girls it’ll soon get him thinking x headtopics.com
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We are all different so it is her choice to still want to be with him, i would struggle to forgive texting in secret let alone anything else.
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