Cancelling plans at short notice reveals a lot about your personality...

Spoiler: and it's nothing good, apparently 👀

10/27/2021 7:54:00 AM

Cancelling plans at short notice reveals a lot about your personality...

Spoiler: and it's nothing good, apparently 👀

Getty ImagesA new study has found that those who cancel plans last minute also tend to have 'darker', including Machiavellianism (being manipulative and having a lack of morals) and narcissism (extremely self-absorbed). Great!Given that at one point in time we've likely

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allbeen the person to send a last minute 'Sorry but something's come up!' text, does that then mean we're, err,allrotten-to-the-core humans who need deleting or rebooting? Thankfully not, the research explains, as of course sometimes life will get in the way and we'll need to take the odd rain check – it's when cancelling plans becomes a regular habit that it veers into worrying territory.

The research, published inPersonality and Individual Differencesand which was spearheaded by brainiac Silke M. Müller, also seems to suggest that when the aforementioned individuals tend to bail on plans with others at short notice, it's often when something 'better' comes along. The plan-cancellers are also said to exhibit higher levels of impulsivity and procrastination.

During their study, the team of researchers asked 190 participants (who ranged in age from 17 to 30) to fill in questionnaires that included a 'Social Zapping Scale', a spectrum designed to assess their tendency to cancel appointments at short notice. Said survey also took into account the person's tendency to have FOMO, how likely they are to be impulsive or procrastinate, as well as what's known as the 'Dark Triad' personality traits: psychopathy, Machiavellianism, and narcissism.

Getty ImagesAfter testing, the researchers discovered that when examining all of the recorded traits, all - bar FOMO - were positively linked to 'social zapping' and that predictors of a 'social zapper' included impulsivity, narcissism, and procrastination. However, the strongest predictor that somebody was likely to 'social zap' and inconvenience another person was Machiavellianism.

The team noted that this makes sense, given that 'social zapping' behavior is generally a very self-centred way of going abut things and pays the other person (or people) involved in the plans very little mind.As procrastination was also found to be a predictor of a social zapper, the study theorises that they could also be delaying the final decision of whether or not to uphold (or confirm) plans until the very last minute too. Which just sounds doubly annoying and selfish.

So, what can we learn from all this? Well, if you've recently started dating or, but they appear to have a habit of ditching you in the eleventh hour, then they're probably a gigantic Machiavellian narcissist who you'd be better off without? Or maybe they just need a better diary. Who knows... 🤷

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