He keeps sending me texts about how urgently he needs a certain amount (of money). Once I pay him, he stops talking.
DEAR ANNIE: I left an extremely abusive marriage almost 30 years ago. The physical, verbal and mental abuse was so bad that I had to escape from the house one day when my husband was not home. I had a son with him that I had to leave behind. My son was 5 years old at the time. He would not have let me have him, so I made the decision, with the help of a family member, to leave with just the clothes I was wearing.
All these years, I had no contact with my son because I was too scared of my ex. I met and married a wonderful man, and we have no kids by choice. A year ago, my son reached out and wished to reconnect with me. I was really happy, but soon, he started asking for money. He has a good job, but he lives beyond his means. Since I only work part time, I don’t have enough money. He keeps sending me texts about how urgently he needs a certain amount. Once I pay him, he stops talking.
DEAR BLACKMAIL: First, I want to commend you for your courage and strength in escaping your abusive marriage and rebuilding your life. Your journey is inspiring, and you deserve peace and happiness. Setting boundaries is crucial. Let your son know that you love him and want to maintain a relationship, but you can no longer give him money because your own finances and health require you to be careful with your resources.
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