Surviving childhood trauma: Singapore mental health advocate, 29, learns to love mum who has schizophrenia | Malay Mail

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SINGAPORE, Aug 1 — An only child to a parent with schizophrenia, 29-year-old Matt Oon knows what it is like growing up in the shadows of mental illness. He still remembers the years of uncertainty and stigma even though he was only around seven years old when his mother was diagnosed with the...

SINGAPORE, Aug 1 — An only child to a parent with schizophrenia, 29-year-old Matt Oon knows what it is like growing up in the shadows of mental illness.

The majority of Acceset’s users are the youth. It also provides peer-support training in partnership with certified counsellors.Matt Oon meeting Queen Elizabeth II when he received the Queen’s Young Leader’s Award in 2018. — Photo by Matt Oon “I thought the public might not be able to accept it, and I was afraid that the extended family would think I am putting my mother and family in a bad light.”

For Oon’s mother, she struggled to discern between what was real and not real, saw things that were not there and would talk or laugh to herself.“My mum would cook something, go to sleep and forget about it. By the time I realised and turned off the stove, the pot would have burnt,” Oon recalled. Recalling one bad experience, he said: “Coming from a poor family, I didn’t have a PlayStation game console so when my friend invited me to his home to play games. I was so excited and we played non-stop until 11pm.

“If I had held on to the hope of my mother’s ‘complete recovery’ from schizophrenia, I would never have been able to walk out of my childhood trauma. That would be an unrealistic expectation. I recognised that there were some things that I simply could not change,” he said. “We build little moments of positive experiences and interactions. She is stabler and looks happier now.”Trauma, Oon said, often comes from a private and intimate setting such as one’s home and the burden on the child can be immense.

The impact of adverse experiences during childhood is greater when it occurs at an early age, when the perpetrator is a trusted figure. — Photo by Portraitor/Pixabay

 

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