They've been labelled 'brainwashed', but these women say being a 'traditional housewife' is liberating

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For Danielle, being a traditional housewife is the 'ultimate example of female autonomy'

For mother of three and self-described tradwife Nadine, who is currently pregnant with her fourth child, being a homemaker was a"clear condition" of what she wanted in a marriage — a dynamic that she says has brought"a lot of calm" into her family's daily life.

"Black sheep happen in every aspect in our society. I'm sure there are traditional wives that didn't have a choice and that are 'prisoners' in their marriage or that even don't know there are other options."Though they refer to themselves as traditional wives, some within the movement note there is no single archetype of a tradwife.

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oh great, more subtle fascist propaganda on the ABC. this country is such trash.

Way to go ABC re-igniting the “mummy wars”. I thought we were way past this. One parent in the paid workforce or both-let’s just respect each other’s choices and get on with it.

ThisisNotJournalism How about writing an article about families who would love to have one parent out of the paid workforce but can’t because of our cost of living, mortgages etc?

What if the husbands of all these “tradwives” decided they wanted to stay home with the kids and booted them out into the paid workforce? Would they submit to that?

What a load of rubbish! Mothers have been staying home to look after the kids for thousands of years and suddenly it becomes a “movement”! When I was home with the kids the only “movement” that I was aware of happened when I was trying to use the bathroom in peace!

This whole 'being a slave is liberating' thing is outright creepy. I'm not sure why it's being promoted.

Lovely for those who can afford it. This was not my choice or an option I could consider. In life we do what we must to live .

I prefer financial independence.

For her. It’s the “ultimate example of female autonomy” for her. Applaud everyone who makes an effort to do their chosen job well and to take pride in it. But not when it goes hand in hand with intolerance of other people’s equally valid and worthwhile choices.

Imagine the sammiches that dude is getting, the dream!

We as a couple decided that when we had children my wife would stop working. Financially this was painful but we lived with it. Now as our children have grown up, she studies, does charity work and looks after the home. We are lucky enough to be able to do this, don't judge.

Fire up the old copper for a true tradition. My mum did that and she worked as well in the 1960s 👏👏

Hi so-called ABC news, can you let me know if your “traditional housewife” was traded for a goat, or did her new husband inherit her when her husband’s brother died? We need some context.

Why the quotation marks? Aren’t women allowed to make whatever choices they want?

How dare a woman do what she prefers unless it fits the politically correct narrative of the day!

Each to their own as long as it is their choice, people need to stop with the judging, just because it's not something you would want to do, doesn't mean it's not right for the ones choosing it. And pressuring people to conform to your personal ideal is wrong.

Well she’s not stuck climbing the pointless & ruthless corporate ladder, so there’s that.

Our ABC gives propaganda oxygen to more far right wing nuts, this time the 'traditional housewife'. Time for the ABC to stop propping up archaic ideology and get back to the 21st century.

She can do what she wants. I respect her and her family's right to the privilege they've gained.

WTF is this shit ABC?

how the fuck is this news?

Being a housewife gives you more autonomy than if you work some crappy job with a petty tyrant for a boss but only if your family can afford. If they can’t then bring short of cash is not empowering

Autonomy. Yet here she is advertising her awesomeness all over social media.

it is literally the least creative form of expressing your autonomy. this is stupid.

What she is putting forward is not the life of a traditional housewife. Traditional housewives shut their mouths and stay in the kitchen until they are told otherwise. How dare she speak. Her traditional husband will have to gain more control over his possession won’t he.

Danielle: ‘You’re not a disgrace to your gender if you don't want to live alone in an empty apartment for the rest of your life.’ So those are the only choices? Tradwife or hermit? Danielle’s grip on reality is tenuous at best. No wonder she plays dress-up.

Must have choked to actually publish this ABC. Although, you did manage to keep up your marxist hivemind agenda that it's sexist, racist, nazi, subservient, patriarchal. Did I miss any?

Is it too much to ask for the ABC not to indulge white supremacists?

Good for Danielle. The advantages of having choice. For many women the choice is not this one however.

Im shocked the ABC would cover such dross. This fantasy is the domain for the privileged in 2020. If they divorce these naive women will have no Super for old age- nor skills to get them back into the workforce. A Man is Not a Business Plan

If Danielle wants to be a 'traditional' wife, okay. But seriously, how does she fill her day? Does she use auromatic washing machine, dishwasher, roomba vacuum cleaner, microwave etc? 'Traditional' house wife - I think not.

I know many stay-at-home Mums’ All very happy, modern, switched-on ladies, awesome mothers too! Best keto secret.

Maybe part of the cloud over the concept is the lack of value placed on homemaking and childcare - both of which are full time jobs. If a woman (or a man) chooses to make that their career choice they shouldn’t be criticised for it.

Crazy how we have reached a point where ' my choice is always right; your choice is always wrong.'

Her body her choice.

Being financially dependent, long term, on another person is so dangerous. I hope she has investments etc in her own name.

Both husband & wife work full-time. One at the office, one at home.Both raise the kids.None is greater than the other. Respect.

So retro nazi

'hey, women are free to make their own choice on how they live!' - militant feminists. Woman makes her own informed choice on how to live her life... 'not like that! Our way of living! You traitor!' - militant feminists.

Young women should not read this. Be yourself and be comfortable with whatever you choose in life.

Why is this pap on ABC news? WGAF what some random entitled white middle class nutjobs does for a living?

Back to the 50's when Women's Weekly told women to get out of men's jobs.

Good times for all when the ABC is running nazi propaganda

If its what they want then fine the same goes for those that want the opposite who am I to judge

I told all my girls 2 marry men with good jobs so they can stay home &enjoy their kids.they did & daughter in law works part time from home.They are not religious.I don’t see why women have to work and raise the kids and do most of the housework..that’s not freedom or liberation

Whatever floats your boat, but let’s not forget the history (and Valium) that kept women in that position. Personally I’d rather suck out my eyeballs with a mini vac than sit and swap cleaning tips!

There it is:”The unifying factor is beliefs — that society and the individual are best served from the preservation of the family unit, the careful raising of the next generation to hold these values and the reintroduction of home and faith as the centre focus of life.' AND THEN

AskAtwood femininity Gilead style.

Sure bet the majority are religious..

uh oh, the Feminazis are going to go into meltdown

Women health has declined since taking i the um ‘freedom ‘ of full time work & family . So have kids diets . Not sure lining it at the expensive calorie - laden take away is my idea of freedom ,(meds it help keep the body going )but what ever . Do own thing.Die early. Your choice

What a load of rubbish . A woman who does what she wants is liberated . On a personal note, I personally think it’s a bit nutty to fight for autonomy , then take up ‘two ‘ full time jobs ( home & work ) & call it freedom !😱 I think women have been conned .

ThisisNotJournalism

Wait..am I reading ABC news or The Handmaid's Tale/Testaments? What happens if the husband wabts kids &she can't have them?

You go girl!

Being able to make that choice is the ultimate autonomy, rather.

Economically inactive?

To be fair, she sounds happy and every woman condemning her here sound miserable, maybe working just isn't for women? Maybe being free of constraints of earning a living is a blessing?

Wow, the comments though. The absurd double standard here that her decision is somehow messed up is eye opening. Its okay to bash her decision, but it's practically a crime to bash yours? Fascinating

Interesting. 7NewsAustralia housewives

I prefer my working wife. Although she’s too tired to do anything with the kids, we get lots of takeaway and she’s helping to pay the bills.

Until her husband has an affair and she's out on her backside with no 💰

Computer, show me crypto-nazis

The Taliban would approve

What is this BS ABC? No thanks. Take your conservative propaganda somewhere else...

No probs with Danielle doing this if she does it for life. If her husband leaves her she can hit the street corners to feed her kids. No legal rights against the husband. Those rights are so 70s

Why do you write this crap. Trad wife is the same as a stay at home mum. Women doing all the work to raise the children.

Cool 🤷🏻‍♀️ Do you, Danielle. Just don’t criticise other women who choose to exercise their autonomy in other ways.

They are oppressed. By third wave feminists

So the ABC is publishing Incel fan fiction now?

Bernie2020

Lovely soft-focus portrait of white nationalism.

'Fascism is feminist'

sad women have been brainwashed into thinking being a corporate wageslave for capitalism is 'empowering'

BULLSHIIIIIIIIT

Danielle is stoopid.

Danielle is a fabrication of the patriarchy. Nobody actually thinks like this.

What the hell is a traditional housewife in 2020?

Yeah ok but why would it be a movement rather just what some couples do.

Ultimate example of idiocy

Has Danielle read 'The Female Eunuch'

Who cares about what danielle thinks

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